Have you considered the blessing there is in surprise?
Our lives are normally predictable which can translate to boring. The longer you’ve been married the more likely your relationship is mundane or heading that way.
Our special needs 3 year old grandson loves to be surprised. He coils up with laughter whenever we do something unexpected. He can’t talk but the light in his eyes lets us know how much he loves to be surprised.
What about your spouse? Do they like special surprises? If you aren’t sure you need to ask. If you do know, then why not plan something little or even extravagant, based on your budget.
There is no one more worthy of your attention than the one to whom you said, “I do“.
It’s the start of a new year. Why not resolve to make plans to surprise your spouse every month in 2024. It might take some planning on your part, but it will bring lasting blessing to the one you’re called to love and cherish.
Some ideas include:
- flowers
- take a day off from work and let them know by showing up for a surprise lunch at home or at their work.
- an unexpected snack hidden in their car for their commute to or from work
- a Spotify playlist of all your favorites
- dinner out
- a surprise shopping spree
- a coffee date
- a daily text for a week at the same time of day with a funny, romantic or sexy quote or meme.
- hide notes around the house for them to find throughout the week.
It doesn’t have to cost a lot of money, but the effort spent planning speaks volumes as to how you value your marriage.
Are you up for the challenge?
The Romantic Vineyard 