This is the one day set aside for you to make the most of your love. But where do you start?

Think of the things your spouse loves. How can you highlight these things in an unexpected way?

Examples:

If your spouse loves flowers, buy them or cut a fresh bouquet from your garden.

If your spouse loves food, cook or bake them something unexpected, or treat them to a fine dining experience.

If your spouse loves the outdoors, plan a time to enjoy it. i.e. fire pit, hike, picnic or outdoor movie night.

If your spouse loves or needs to relax, give them an awesome massage or set up an appointment for one. Followed by a hot, steam shower or soaking bath.

If your spouse loves being active, sign up for a 5k together.

The point is to do what will make your spouse say, “Wow!” Even if it’s out of your comfort zone. Your willingness to make a memory with them will go a long way in creating intimacy.

It would be easy to bypass this holiday as a hokey, commercially laden holiday. But why not use it to deepen your connection. Chocolates, flowers and dinner are so blasé.

Don’t follow the norm but create your own memory.

What do you want your spouse to remember about Valentine’s Day 2025. It’s up to you to make it happen.

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Welcome to our new followers. What a privilege it is to come alongside you in your marriage journey. May this Valentine’s Day be more than a Hallmark idea but one where you deepen your affection for the one who knows you best.

Blessings,

Tom and Debi ❤️❤️