Expected vs. Given

Expected view

We’ve all been there; we have great expectations for a date, a vacation, a party or even weather. And when the time comes it is “less than”.

This summer Tom and I had great expectations for time away in New England. We wanted a break from the Florida heat. Instead, we took the heat with us!

Vermont and Maine had a 70 year record-breaking heat wave. We couldn’t help but think we had brought it with us. We still made the most of our time, but if we are honest, it was disappointing.

What do we do with these set backs? We thank God!

You heard that right. It glorifies God when we thank Him for what’s given over what is expected.

As I write this we are possibly facing another disappointment, so this is more a reminder for us than it may be for you.

Whatever expectations you may have right now—offer them to God in humble surrender. Ultimately we want His will over ours. And these momentary afflictions are creating a way for us to glorify Him in ways we might never choose.

We are away this week, and we will see if this time goes as we hoped or if God chooses something better. Either way we win.

Current view

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Thank you for continually visiting our vineyard. We are grateful for your desire to make the most of the time you’ve been given as husband and wife. Everyday is an adventure whether expected or not!

Blessings,

Tom and Debi ❤️❤️

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.
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