We had a reader ask an excellent question last week, and we’ve decided to toss it out for you to offer your thoughts on the subject.
How does one learn to flirt with your spouse after 10 years of marriage?
For starters I’ll share what Tom said to me tonight.
“I love it when you flirt with me because flirting is fun, and you’re the only one with whom I can or want to flirt.”
I look at flirting as anything you say or do that makes your husband/wife smile at you in a way that makes you smile back. It’s usually personal and something no one else in the room knows is going on but you. Flirting takes stealth, which is why it’s so much fun.
Have you and your spouse always had a flirting relationship? If not, how did you begin? Was it a difficult transition? What did you to begin flirting at first?
Please take some time to think it over and offer your answers in the comments. Let’s encourage one another day after day as the Bible so clearly instructs. Then, let’s practice what we preach this weekend before Thanksgiving!