Winston Smith with Christian Counseling Education Foundation shares some excellent points in the following video regarding the expectations you may have in your marriage, especially in your sexual intimacy.

I’ve often said sex is a barometer of how our marriage is doing and it is. But our spiritual intimacy is the compass. This is what gives us focus through the ups and downs of our sex life

In 34 years together we have experienced many down times in our physical relationship. But those times had purpose–they helped us both focus on other aspects of our marriage that were needed. It helped our marriage mature.

How is your marriage maturing? Are your sexpectations being frustrated? What will you do to stay focused?