It’s nearing the peak of hurricane season in Florida (September 10th). The newest families to call Florida home are the ones most likely to panic as a storm approaches.

As a native Floridian, we don’t panic, but we prepare.

We have boards to cover our windows if the storm is a Category 2 or higher. We make sure we have enough essentials: batteries, flashlights, food in the pantry, etc. We bring in patio furniture and anything loose in the yard. And secure a generator in case the power goes out.

Then we wait and watch.

Marriages have hurricanes as well. Some more than others, but it is imperative for all of us to prepare for them.

What if we take the steps of hurricane preparedness and apply it to our relationship? How would it impact our next conflict?

First and foremost, when the high winds of adversity hit your marriage, it is good to cover your heart with the truth. Remember you are both on the same team fighting the storm together. Protection looks like thinking the best of your spouse when the situation looks otherwise.

These are the essentials needed when a hurricane of conflict is building on the horizon:

• a listening ear
• being slow to speak
• shining the light of truth on every thought allowing God’s Word to be your guide
• Good counsel—this helps your marriage stay nourished instead of famished.
• Quickly resolve little irritations. These can go flying when the high winds of trouble increase.
• Maintain a healthy relationship with the Lord. He is our anchor in every situation we will face as a couple. He keeps the lights on when darkness is trying to blind us from understanding each other.

Hurricanes are a force to be reckoned with in Florida, and conflict is a formidable foe in marriage. How much you prepare during the seasons of plenty will determine how well you endure the season of want.

The best part of a hurricane are the days that follow the storm. The humidity drops clearing the air of the oppressive, summer heat. The cloudless skies even seem bluer.

So too in marriage. We may kiss and make up, but the fresh air of understanding deepens our intimacy in a way only forgiveness can.

So this begs the question, are you prepared for a marriage hurricane?

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