Author Archives: Tom and Debi

Entering The Quiet – A Limited Curiosity

Posted on November 1, 2012 by Tom and Debi

It is ironic that this post is taking place the week leading up to the biggest, most important election America has ever seen. The values and goals of each candidate couldn’t be more different and whomever is chosen to lead … Continue reading →

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Entering The Quiet

Posted on October 26, 2012 by Tom and Debi

“And he said, “Go out and stand on the mount before the LORD.” And behold, the LORD passed by, and a great and strong wind tore the mountains and broke in pieces the rocks before the LORD, but the LORD … Continue reading →

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Comfortable With The Quiet

Posted on October 24, 2012 by Tom and Debi

How would you rate the quietness of your life on a scale of 1 – 10, with 1 being the goal? Here’s another way to ask the same question, if you were to spend an hour sitting in your favorite … Continue reading →

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Cultivating the Quiet In Your Marriage

Posted on October 22, 2012 by Tom and Debi

This week we are delving into the deeps of cultivating the quiet in our minds, hearts and marriages. It may be something you’ve thought about often, or you may be venturing into unknown territory. Whatever the case, we believe this … Continue reading →

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On Bored

Posted on October 19, 2012 by Tom and Debi

It’s amazing what a month without the noise of television will do. We’ve found we don’t miss it at all. We can watch movies here, but that’s it, and the choice is limited. In Gary Thomas’ book, Seeking The Face … Continue reading →

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13 Fall Dates – #12

Posted on October 12, 2012 by Tom and Debi

We are nearing the end of our list, and we hope you’ve found at least a couple of dates that will work for you and your spouse to try before the winter chill arrives. Fall Date #12 Moon Dance Do … Continue reading →

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13 Fall Dates – #9

Posted on October 9, 2012 by Tom and Debi

What better time than the Fall to review the season when you first fell in love? Fall Date #9 Photographs And Memories of Falling in Love Once the kids are in bed, cuddle up on the couch with some hot … Continue reading →

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13 Fall Dates – #7

Posted on October 7, 2012 by Tom and Debi

Today’s date may take a little planning, but it will be oh, so worth it! We’re planning to try this one while we’re in the mountains. 🙂 Fall Date #7 Star-Gazing Purchase or borrow an inflatable mattress if you can. … Continue reading →

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13 Fall Dates – #6

Posted on October 6, 2012 by Tom and Debi

The colors of Fall are my most favorite–reds, oranges, yellows and greens. They have a way of warming any space. Our next Fall Date incorporates the colors of Fall in a special way. Fall Date #6 Fall Foliage Puzzle Spend … Continue reading →

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13 Fall Dates – #5

Posted on October 5, 2012 by Tom and Debi

We hope you’ve been enjoying our date night ideas as much as we’ve been enjoying the fall weather in Northern Georgia. It’s amazing how much more inspired one can be to write about this beautiful time of year when it … Continue reading →

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13 Fall Dates To Warm Your Heart!

Posted on October 1, 2012 by Tom and Debi

We love this time of year. The color, the cooler temperatures, the scents and most of all, the food. Everything is focused on warming your heart. In an effort to help make this Fall the best it can be, we’ve … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on September 28, 2012 by Tom and Debi

This week’s Special Blog of the Week is: One Flesh Marriage We have had the privilege to meet Brad and Kate in person. In fact, we had them over for dinner at our home when they were visiting Orlando. They … Continue reading →

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Do You Do This?

Posted on September 26, 2012 by Tom and Debi

How often do you pray for your spouse? We’re not talking about as you’re driving down the road, but concerted, undistracted time alone with God letting Him know your requests for your spouse? Prayer is our most powerful weapon against … Continue reading →

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Live Like There’s No Tomorrow

Posted on September 24, 2012 by Tom and Debi

It’s Monday. Traditionally a day when those who go back to work or back to school let out a sigh, a moan or a prayer–depending on how much joy you derive from your lot in life. What if today–on this … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on September 21, 2012 by Tom and Debi

We’ve decided with our schedules being unpredictable as of late, to change the format of our weekly Happy Hour post. Instead of sharing one link from several marriage blogs, we’re going to begin sharing one or more posts from one … Continue reading →

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Joy In The Rhythm of Life

Posted on September 14, 2012 by Tom and Debi

It is 11p. as I’m writing this post. We’ve had a busy day going our separate ways, doing the things we need to do. Tom had doctors appointments, phone calls about business opportunities, and an after dinner get together with … Continue reading →

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She Loves Me…She Loves Me Not

Posted on September 12, 2012 by Tom and Debi

We were in the car recently talking about the following, and we want to share our conversation with you. We’ve all heard this common verse repeated by hopeful lovers while removing each petal from a daisy. When the last petal … Continue reading →

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Cherish.Love.Live.

Posted on September 11, 2012 by Tom and Debi

This is the day we remember. This is the day we will never forget. It is the day when we hold our loved ones a bit closer. And pray to God more earnestly. We will never be what we were … Continue reading →

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Our Winners!

Posted on September 10, 2012 by Tom and Debi

It’s hard to believe Summer has come and gone, but we have proof. Our Summer Lovin’ Photo Contest was sizzlin’ right up until the very end. Thank you to all who entered and thank you to all who took the … Continue reading →

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Revised – Summer Lovin’ Photo Contest Top Ten

Posted on September 4, 2012 by Tom and Debi

[Please note – We accidentally sent out a post too soon at 8a. This is the final edition of today’s post. Sorry for the confusion.] We want to send out a special thanks to all who entered our contest. It … Continue reading →

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