Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

Vintage Post – Trigger Words

Posted on April 9, 2025 by Debi Walter

Mark Twain said, “The difference between the right word and the almost right word is “the difference between lightning and a lightning bug.” I suppose the reverse of this could be said as well – using the wrong words when … Continue reading →

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We Blinked

Posted on April 7, 2025 by Debi Walter

Yesterday was a banner day for us. Our church, Metro Life Church in Casselberry, FL, turned 40. We were part of the start in the spring of 1985. We had two of our three children at that time as 17 … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Chicken Fried Chicken

Posted on April 4, 2025 by Debi Walter

Comfort. It’s part of my word for this year, #comfortandjoy2025. This has been one of those weeks I would rather avoid. But I’ve learned in the last few years that hard times produce good fruit. That is, if we are … Continue reading →

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Time to Kneel

Posted on March 31, 2025 by Debi Walter

Tom and I have had projects on our to-do list for years that we simply haven’t made or had the time to accomplish well. Things that living in the same home for 32 years demand, e.g. cleaning out and organizing … Continue reading →

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Foodie Friday – Lobster Stock and Bisque

Posted on March 28, 2025 by Debi Walter

Tom and I enjoy watching cooking competitions and shows on TV. I have learned some valuable things for my growth in culinary skills. Ha! Typing that sounds so strange. When we got married I didn’t know how to cook, but … Continue reading →

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Conscience

Posted on March 26, 2025 by Debi Walter

Conscience. The place where the Holy calls the lowly. Only those who are lowly hear the whispers of the Holy. Conscience. The tender place where God speaks and we bow tender in adoration. Conscience. Marriage is built on truth and … Continue reading →

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Not Helpful

Posted on March 24, 2025 by Debi Walter

Has someone who was supposed to do something for you or a loved one ever let you down? Did the situation not resolve with the ending you wanted? I’m certain we have all experienced such disappointments in life and in … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Stuffed Potatoes Supreme

Posted on March 21, 2025 by Debi Walter

This week we traveled to GA to be with our granddaughter for her 11th birthday. As tradition would have it, her dinner was prepared according to her taste. She has always had a mature palette—how many 6 year olds love … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Physical Intimacy

Posted on March 19, 2025 by Debi Walter

Originally published 2019 Some may call this Sexual Intimacy, but we believe Physical Intimacy more accurately describes this part of marriage. This kind of intimacy encompasses so much more than having sexual relations. Physical touch and expression throughout the day … Continue reading →

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Happy St. Patrick’s Day

Posted on March 17, 2025 by Debi Walter

It’s a day of good food, parades and laughter. Why not celebrate together tonight? You could… Watch a movie set in Ireland. Or enjoy a good comedian, like Nate Bargatze. Go to an Irish Pub or restaurant. Play Trivia. Make … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Ham and Scalloped Potatoes

Posted on March 14, 2025 by Debi Walter

There are some recipes I’ve had so long I don’t remember where I found it. This recipe is one of them. It is comfort food for our family, and hopefully for your’s too. First, buy a good quality ham—we buy … Continue reading →

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Worship

Posted on March 10, 2025 by Debi Walter

Last night as we were about to turn off the lights and go to bed, Tom said, “Let’s play one worship song.” I sat down ready to enjoy these few moments together focused on Jesus. He hit his playlist not … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Classic French Toast

Posted on March 7, 2025 by Debi Walter

I am not the only one who loves to cook in our home. Tom has his specialties that are his alone to make—French Toast being one of them. The day Tom proposed to me he took me out for breakfast. … Continue reading →

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Fresh Eyes

Posted on March 5, 2025 by Debi Walter

It is spring in Florida and it is invigorating. The birds are especially loud this time of year. They are busy preparing their nests. With the focus on our home in Monday’s post, it has given me fresh eyes for … Continue reading →

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There’s No Place Like It

Posted on March 3, 2025 by Debi Walter

Having just returned from celebrating our anniversary, we are freshly aware of how much we love coming home. It doesn’t matter how nice the place is we visited; there comes a point when we both just want to be home. … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Creamy Tomato Soup

Posted on February 28, 2025 by Debi Walter

Confession: My love for cooking started as a challenge. When our daughter was diagnosed with Celiac disease we had to rethink every favorite family recipe. This led me to find new recipes too, from those suffering with the same limitations. … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Old Age, Fresh Love

Posted on February 26, 2025 by Debi Walter

Originally published in July 2017 “Come grow old with me. The best is yet to be” is a quote lovers use often to express their devotion. However, when old age is knocking on the door it doesn’t seem to have the … Continue reading →

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It’s Our 46th Anniversary

Posted on February 24, 2025 by Debi Walter

Rather than talk about it, we thought we’d let pictures speak of the life we’ve made together.

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Foodie Fridays – Lemon Blueberry Scones

Posted on February 21, 2025 by Debi Walter

I fell in love with scones when Starbucks first featured their pumpkin scones in the fall. As I often do, I decided to try them at home and see if they were better. The difference between “made across the country, … Continue reading →

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Solid Rock

Posted on February 19, 2025 by Debi Walter

Yesterday we shared the importance of dealing with offenses as they happen. And happen they will! Today I was reminded of another One who left His mark on our marriage—etched in stone, as it were. Jesus is our solid rock, … Continue reading →

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