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Encouraging Words
We mentioned we are reading through the book, I Still Do, by Dave Harvey. One of the first things in the discussion questions was to sit together and share at least 5 things you love and admire about your spouse. … Continue reading
Vintage Post: Is Your Spouse a Prisoner of Your Expectations?
Originally written in 2013, this is still needed today… Imagine you’re having a conversation with your spouse when something doesn’t quite sit right with you. You ask your spouse a question to clarify what you heard them say. They don’t … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, communication, Conflict
Tagged communication, expectations, marriage advice, pregnant silence
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Reflecting on 2025
This is the time of year for reflection. I have been doing this for a few weeks now, thus my lack of posts. It was November when I last shared my thoughts with you. Why the pause? Honestly, I’m discouraged … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – No Words Needed
These are photos of our Thanksgivings in GA and in TN. Two meal preps, two delicious meals, three families we love dearly. The family that cooks together makes great memories that satisfy body and soul.
Foodie Fridays – Thanksgiving Favorites
Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday because the whole purpose of it is to give thanks. There is no imitation to the purpose of this holiday as there is Christmas and Easter. We focus on how good God has … Continue reading
What Will You Do With Yours?
If you had an extra hour in your day what would you do with it? Finish something on your to-do list? Sleep an extra hour? Nothing? We have a suggestion. Since this Saturday is when our clocks “fall back” to … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – Jambalaya
Our Sunday dinner for October was with friends we have known since before they were married. And they are celebrating 20 years today! The moment they walked in the door the laughter began. We hugged and reminisced until the timer … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays, Sunday Dinners
Tagged Foodie Fridays, Sunday Dinner
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Never Too Old To Grow
A while ago we were in a meeting at church when one of the husband’s commended his wife for her consistency. He said it was evident in many ways in her life, but one way I have not forgotten. She … Continue reading
No Grunting Allowed
It started almost 3 years ago when a friend gifted Tom one month to work out with him for an hour. It was scheduled twice a week, with his personal trainer. This is all it took for Tom to begin … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – Homemade Chicken and Dumplings
I was on the phone with my daughter in GA and asked her what she was cooking for dinner. She immediately replied, “Chicken and Dumplings!” This was no surprise as it was her favorite meal as a kid. I couldn’t … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays
Tagged Chicken and Dumplings, comfort food, Foodie Fridays, recipes
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One Day Road Trip Adventures
Yesterday was a day long-awaited. Tom was born in Buffalo and loves the food he grew up enjoying—wings, pizza and beef on a weck. I have come to love it too, and even cook his favorites for him. He discovered … Continue reading
Always On My Mind
I love music. I usually have a song running through my thoughts, and often wake up with one playing on repeat. Sometimes I notice this more than at other times—like last night. Tom and I were sitting outside enjoying the … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – Our Favorite Pancakes
Tom and I usually have eggs for breakfast during the week and do something more fun on Saturdays. But this morning with his oh please look, he asked, “Do you want pancakes?” “I think that sounds great!” I grabbed my … Continue reading
Posted in Cherishing, Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays
Tagged Buttermilk Substitute, Foodie Fridays, Magnolia Table, Pancakes
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Do You Do This?
Tom and I have been married for nearly 47 years. But we are facing a challenge we haven’t dealt with in years. The issue is who gets to defer to the other. For example, it may be choosing where we … Continue reading
Posted in Cherishing, Christian Marriage, Conflict
Tagged Romancing your spouse, to defer or not defer
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Foodie Fridays – German Bratwurst and Potato Salad
My husband is half German, half Italian, so every now and then he gets a craving for a good German Brat boiled in beer. This craving started while we were in Montana. He saw that a restaurant was serving it … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays
Tagged bratwurst in beer, German Food, German Potato Salad
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How Kind Of You, Ay?
While in Canada we noticed something quite unusual and it made us happy and sad; the Canadian drivers are incredibly polite. For example, Tom needed to get over a lane but there were a lot of cars. He put on … Continue reading
Mood Setters
I have created a tradition in our home; I decorate for the seasons. We don’t get the color New England is known for until January. Nor do we get the cooler weather our family in Georgia and Tennessee enjoys. So … Continue reading
Joy In Endings
Today we start our trip home. It has been an incredible time away seeing parts of God’s creation of which we had only heard. The words weren’t adequate in describing it. Even my camera fell short in capturing what my … Continue reading
Remember…
Have a blessed weekend! Tom and Debi ❤️❤️
Posted in Cherishing, Christian Marriage
Tagged good advice for couples, Marriage Memes
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Bucket List Moments
We have been in Canada for a week now and have experienced Canadian kindness on many levels. Our Airbnb hosts provided us with fresh flowers, pastries and muffins. The people in stores and restaurants have been courteous and helpful when … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, communication, Romantic Vacation Ideas, Travel, Vacations
Tagged Banff Alberta Canada, Bucket List, Lake Louise
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