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Category Archives: Christian Marriage
Vintage Post – 5 Right and Wrong Reasons to Want a Healthy Marriage
This was originally posted in 2012. It was good advice then, as well as it is today… First, we want to share with you the wrong reasons to want a healthy marriage: 1. I want to be happy. While happiness is … Continue reading
Vintage Post – Ten Habits of Highly Romantic Couples
Originally posted in August, 2020. Romance is simply thinking of your spouse above all others when it comes to time, attention, generosity and kindness. Your spouse should never feel that they come in second place to your other priorities. Of … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – Blistered Shishito Peppers
Shishito (pronounced “shi-sheet’-o”) peppers are available in the produce section of most grocery stores. This is one of our favorite appetizers to enjoy during a football game. All you must do is wash peppers and dry completely. Toss in a … Continue reading
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Tagged appetizers, Go Bills, shishito peppers
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Vintage Post – Four Encouragements for the Discouraged Marriage
This post was originally posted in 2011. We think it applies as much today… Marriages can go through all sorts of ups and downs as the years pass. This is expected to some degree, for it’s shared in most wedding vows: for … Continue reading
Blog Love: Living Our Days
Michele has become a dear friend of mine and her posts often resonate with me. This one is no exception. We mentioned that we are going through a book study with a small group from church. The book is titled, … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – Thai Slaw with Peanut Dressing
I have a neighbor who has become a dear friend. We first met years ago when her daughter was applying for college. She asked if I would edit her essay. I was happy to do it for her. I learned … Continue reading
Encouraging Words
We mentioned we are reading through the book, I Still Do, by Dave Harvey. One of the first things in the discussion questions was to sit together and share at least 5 things you love and admire about your spouse. … Continue reading
Vintage Post: Is Your Spouse a Prisoner of Your Expectations?
Originally written in 2013, this is still needed today… Imagine you’re having a conversation with your spouse when something doesn’t quite sit right with you. You ask your spouse a question to clarify what you heard them say. They don’t … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, communication, Conflict
Tagged communication, expectations, marriage advice, pregnant silence
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Reflecting on 2025
This is the time of year for reflection. I have been doing this for a few weeks now, thus my lack of posts. It was November when I last shared my thoughts with you. Why the pause? Honestly, I’m discouraged … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – No Words Needed
These are photos of our Thanksgivings in GA and in TN. Two meal preps, two delicious meals, three families we love dearly. The family that cooks together makes great memories that satisfy body and soul.
Foodie Fridays – Thanksgiving Favorites
Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday because the whole purpose of it is to give thanks. There is no imitation to the purpose of this holiday as there is Christmas and Easter. We focus on how good God has … Continue reading
What Will You Do With Yours?
If you had an extra hour in your day what would you do with it? Finish something on your to-do list? Sleep an extra hour? Nothing? We have a suggestion. Since this Saturday is when our clocks “fall back” to … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – Jambalaya
Our Sunday dinner for October was with friends we have known since before they were married. And they are celebrating 20 years today! The moment they walked in the door the laughter began. We hugged and reminisced until the timer … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays, Sunday Dinners
Tagged Foodie Fridays, Sunday Dinner
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Never Too Old To Grow
A while ago we were in a meeting at church when one of the husband’s commended his wife for her consistency. He said it was evident in many ways in her life, but one way I have not forgotten. She … Continue reading
No Grunting Allowed
It started almost 3 years ago when a friend gifted Tom one month to work out with him for an hour. It was scheduled twice a week, with his personal trainer. This is all it took for Tom to begin … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – Homemade Chicken and Dumplings
I was on the phone with my daughter in GA and asked her what she was cooking for dinner. She immediately replied, “Chicken and Dumplings!” This was no surprise as it was her favorite meal as a kid. I couldn’t … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays
Tagged Chicken and Dumplings, comfort food, Foodie Fridays, recipes
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One Day Road Trip Adventures
Yesterday was a day long-awaited. Tom was born in Buffalo and loves the food he grew up enjoying—wings, pizza and beef on a weck. I have come to love it too, and even cook his favorites for him. He discovered … Continue reading
Always On My Mind
I love music. I usually have a song running through my thoughts, and often wake up with one playing on repeat. Sometimes I notice this more than at other times—like last night. Tom and I were sitting outside enjoying the … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – Our Favorite Pancakes
Tom and I usually have eggs for breakfast during the week and do something more fun on Saturdays. But this morning with his oh please look, he asked, “Do you want pancakes?” “I think that sounds great!” I grabbed my … Continue reading
Posted in Cherishing, Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays
Tagged Buttermilk Substitute, Foodie Fridays, Magnolia Table, Pancakes
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Do You Do This?
Tom and I have been married for nearly 47 years. But we are facing a challenge we haven’t dealt with in years. The issue is who gets to defer to the other. For example, it may be choosing where we … Continue reading
Posted in Cherishing, Christian Marriage, Conflict
Tagged Romancing your spouse, to defer or not defer
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