Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

Vintage Post – Four Encouragements for the Discouraged Marriage

Posted on January 14, 2026 by Debi Walter

This post was originally posted in 2011. We think it applies as much today… Marriages can go through all sorts of ups and downs as the years pass. This is expected to some degree, for it’s shared in most wedding vows: for … Continue reading →

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Blog Love: Living Our Days

Posted on January 12, 2026 by Debi Walter

Michele has become a dear friend of mine and her posts often resonate with me. This one is no exception. We mentioned that we are going through a book study with a small group from church. The book is titled, … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Thai Slaw with Peanut Dressing

Posted on January 9, 2026 by Debi Walter

I have a neighbor who has become a dear friend. We first met years ago when her daughter was applying for college. She asked if I would edit her essay. I was happy to do it for her. I learned … Continue reading →

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Encouraging Words

Posted on January 5, 2026 by Debi Walter

We mentioned we are reading through the book, I Still Do, by Dave Harvey. One of the first things in the discussion questions was to sit together and share at least 5 things you love and admire about your spouse. … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post: Is Your Spouse a Prisoner of Your Expectations?

Posted on January 3, 2026 by Debi Walter

Originally written in 2013, this is still needed today… Imagine you’re having a conversation with your spouse when something doesn’t quite sit right with you. You ask your spouse a question to clarify what you heard them say. They don’t … Continue reading →

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Reflecting on 2025

Posted on December 30, 2025 by Debi Walter

This is the time of year for reflection. I have been doing this for a few weeks now, thus my lack of posts. It was November when I last shared my thoughts with you. Why the pause? Honestly, I’m discouraged … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – No Words Needed

Posted on November 28, 2025 by Debi Walter

These are photos of our Thanksgivings in GA and in TN. Two meal preps, two delicious meals, three families we love dearly. The family that cooks together makes great memories that satisfy body and soul.

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Foodie Fridays – Thanksgiving Favorites

Posted on November 21, 2025 by Debi Walter

Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday because the whole purpose of it is to give thanks. There is no imitation to the purpose of this holiday as there is Christmas and Easter. We focus on how good God has … Continue reading →

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What Will You Do With Yours?

Posted on October 27, 2025 by Debi Walter

If you had an extra hour in your day what would you do with it? Finish something on your to-do list? Sleep an extra hour? Nothing? We have a suggestion. Since this Saturday is when our clocks “fall back” to … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Jambalaya

Posted on October 24, 2025 by Debi Walter

Our Sunday dinner for October was with friends we have known since before they were married. And they are celebrating 20 years today! The moment they walked in the door the laughter began. We hugged and reminisced until the timer … Continue reading →

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Never Too Old To Grow

Posted on October 22, 2025 by Debi Walter

A while ago we were in a meeting at church when one of the husband’s commended his wife for her consistency. He said it was evident in many ways in her life, but one way I have not forgotten. She … Continue reading →

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No Grunting Allowed

Posted on October 20, 2025 by Debi Walter

It started almost 3 years ago when a friend gifted Tom one month to work out with him for an hour. It was scheduled twice a week, with his personal trainer. This is all it took for Tom to begin … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Homemade Chicken and Dumplings

Posted on October 17, 2025 by Debi Walter

I was on the phone with my daughter in GA and asked her what she was cooking for dinner. She immediately replied, “Chicken and Dumplings!” This was no surprise as it was her favorite meal as a kid. I couldn’t … Continue reading →

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One Day Road Trip Adventures

Posted on October 15, 2025 by Debi Walter

Yesterday was a day long-awaited. Tom was born in Buffalo and loves the food he grew up enjoying—wings, pizza and beef on a weck. I have come to love it too, and even cook his favorites for him. He discovered … Continue reading →

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Always On My Mind

Posted on October 13, 2025 by Debi Walter

I love music. I usually have a song running through my thoughts, and often wake up with one playing on repeat. Sometimes I notice this more than at other times—like last night. Tom and I were sitting outside enjoying the … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Our Favorite Pancakes

Posted on October 10, 2025 by Debi Walter

Tom and I usually have eggs for breakfast during the week and do something more fun on Saturdays. But this morning with his oh please look, he asked, “Do you want pancakes?” “I think that sounds great!” I grabbed my … Continue reading →

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Do You Do This?

Posted on October 6, 2025 by Debi Walter

Tom and I have been married for nearly 47 years. But we are facing a challenge we haven’t dealt with in years. The issue is who gets to defer to the other. For example, it may be choosing where we … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – German Bratwurst and Potato Salad

Posted on October 3, 2025 by Debi Walter

My husband is half German, half Italian, so every now and then he gets a craving for a good German Brat boiled in beer. This craving started while we were in Montana. He saw that a restaurant was serving it … Continue reading →

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How Kind Of You, Ay?

Posted on October 1, 2025 by Debi Walter

While in Canada we noticed something quite unusual and it made us happy and sad; the Canadian drivers are incredibly polite. For example, Tom needed to get over a lane but there were a lot of cars. He put on … Continue reading →

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Mood Setters

Posted on September 29, 2025 by Debi Walter

I have created a tradition in our home; I decorate for the seasons. We don’t get the color New England is known for until January. Nor do we get the cooler weather our family in Georgia and Tennessee enjoys. So … Continue reading →

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