Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

Pierced & Embraced – A Review

Posted on August 16, 2017 by Debi Walter

I was recently provided a copy of Kelli Worrall’s new book titled, Pierced & Embraced. It is an excellent book examining the encounters Christ had with seven women as recorded in the Gospels. I was riveted from the outset. You … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on August 4, 2017 by Debi Walter

It’s time to share some of our favorites from this week. Take some time this weekend and check these posts out. It’s worth your time… The Forgiven Wife After All That Effort, Now He’s The One Who Doesn’t Want Sex … Continue reading →

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16 Tips on Marriage from the Longest Married Couple in America

Posted on August 1, 2017 by Debi Walter

The year was 1932. The Great Depression was in full swing, but a celebration of love was taking place in November of that year. John and Ann Betar eloped after fleeing Connecticut because Ann's father had arranged her to marry … Continue reading →

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Old Age Fresh Love

Posted on July 28, 2017 by Debi Walter

“Come grow old with me. The best is yet to be” is a quote lovers use often to express their devotion. However, when old age is knocking on the door it doesn’t seem to have the same romantic appeal. It is … Continue reading →

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“You Are So Beautiful To Me”

Posted on July 28, 2017 by Debi Walter

Wives, how many of you have heard your husband say this to you? I would imagine most of us would say we have, but do you believe him? Or do you find yourself arguing or rejecting his compliments? You may … Continue reading →

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Magnifying Respect In Marriage

Posted on July 25, 2017 by Debi Walter

When asked, “Do you respect your spouse?” Most of us would answer a quick YES! It’s necessary to examine respect to see if we know what we’re talking about. Webster’s 1828 Dictionary defines it this way: RESPECT’, verb transitive – … Continue reading →

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Two Ways To Improve Your Communication In Marriage

Posted on July 17, 2017 by Debi Walter

Sometimes we hear advice that is familiar so we ignore it even if we aren’t practicing it; It’s called a well-worn path. The Bible calls it not having ears to hear. Ouch! Communication, like baseball, is learned over time with … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on July 14, 2017 by Debi Walter

It’s been awhile since I’ve had the time to highlight some of my favorite posts for the week, and this week is no exception. But I have a friend who is just starting her blog (first post today) and I … Continue reading →

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Two Weddings and an Engagement

Posted on July 13, 2017 by Debi Walter

  I have two nephews who are getting married within six weeks of each other this Summer. I am coordinating one and helping with the rehearsal dinner for the other, and I am loving every minute of it! Right in … Continue reading →

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Monday Date Night Prompts – Game Night

Posted on July 3, 2017 by Debi Walter

Game nights are usually reserved for Family Nights, not date nights. However, I think we are missing out by making such a judgment.  You may have seen some of our most popular romantic game ideas like: Scrabble Clue Putt-putt golf … Continue reading →

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Keeping It Real–Worth The Effort

Posted on June 28, 2017 by Debi Walter

If you haven’t figured it out by now, I love parties. I love holidays. I love surprises. I love celebrations. Since Tom has retired it makes it very difficult to surprise him. He is almost always home when I’m home. … Continue reading →

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Monday Date Night Prompts – On The Water

Posted on June 26, 2017 by Debi Walter

Summer is in full-swing and it’s finally warm enough to enjoy time on the water, which brings us to our date night prompt for this week! We live in Florida where water is a part of our lives all year … Continue reading →

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5 Marriage Blogger Husband’s Answer This Question…

Posted on June 21, 2017 by Debi Walter

Why is Sex Important? Part One Listen in on this podcast as my husband, Tom, and the following men discuss this vital aspect of Sex in a healthy Marriage: Paul Byerly, The Generous Husband and The XY Code Scott Means, Heaven … Continue reading →

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Lesson Learned

Posted on June 20, 2017 by Debi Walter

There was a time in our marriage when Tom said something that hurt me deeply. It wasn’t the intent of his heart to hurt me, but because of the verse above I insisted that something was in his heart that … Continue reading →

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Loving v. Virginia – 50 Years of Interracial Marriage

Posted on June 12, 2017 by Debi Walter

John Piper has written an outstanding tribute to the pivotal anniversary celebrated today. It was on June 12, 1967 when the United States Supreme Court declared unconstitutional all state laws that prohibited interracial marriage. But it didn’t change in America instantly. … Continue reading →

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Monday Date Night Prompts – Date With A View

Posted on June 5, 2017 by Debi Walter

Today Tom and I will venture to one of our favorite places in the High Country–5506′ SkyBar. It sits on top of Beech Mountain Ski Resort and you can only get there by taking the ski lift to the top. … Continue reading →

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Please Take Our Poll: How Do You Selfie?

Posted on May 31, 2017 by Debi Walter

We invite you to take our Selfie Survey.  Also, feel free to share a selfie photo in our comments if you’d like. 🙂

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We Remember

Posted on May 29, 2017 by Debi Walter
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Monday Date Night Prompts – Rendezvous

Posted on May 29, 2017 by Debi Walter

One of the thing that is so romantic about dating before you get married is meeting together in out of the way places to talk and get to know each other a little more. Tom and I wanted to recapture … Continue reading →

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The Core of Who We Are

Posted on May 25, 2017 by Debi Walter

When we began blogging in 2008, there were only a handful of marriage bloggers seeking to spread the encouragement that marriages can not only survive, but thrive. Now 9 years later there are 130 marriage blogs who have committed to … Continue reading →

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