Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

20 Practical Romantic Resolutions For The Unromantic Husband

Posted on January 4, 2017 by Debi Walter

Here we are at the start of a new year and everyone either embraces resolutions or runs from them as fast as they can. I get that. It seems resolutions set us up to fail, especially when what we set … Continue reading →

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Keeping It Real This New Year…

Posted on January 3, 2017 by Debi Walter

I want to post something because it’s been awhile since I have. But my reserves are low and my motivation even more so. We have been caught in the middle of many situations requiring our constant attention. It has divided … Continue reading →

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Christmas In Review

Posted on December 23, 2016 by Debi Walter

I know we still have two days left before the day is here. But I wanted to plant this idea in your mind now, so maybe you’ll remember to come back to this post next week. Please? What I’d like … Continue reading →

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Thirsty For Romance

Posted on December 8, 2016 by Debi Walter

Date nights can become routine, and during the Christmas season they can become non-existent. Why not plan something special this week while you’re out shopping together? Romantic Tip for this week is to include our Mall Date Night idea we shared … Continue reading →

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Keeping It Real This Christmas–Can You Relate?

Posted on December 6, 2016 by Debi Walter

My house is a mess. I am decorating for Christmas, but there are demands keeping me from finishing it all at once. Oh sure, I’ve posted photos on Instagram zoomed in where it appears my home is picture perfect, but it’s not. It … Continue reading →

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(S)Elf On The Shelf

Posted on December 3, 2016 by Debi Walter

Our daughter sent us a photo on the first of December. It’s of their little elf who had brought hot chocolate for their 4 children to enjoy when they 2 woke up. It’s a cute tradition many young families have … Continue reading →

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Thirsty For Romance

Posted on December 1, 2016 by Debi Walter

Many of us wait until January to make those New Year resolutions, but what if we were to change this mindset? What if we were to purpose to end 2016 well giving us a head start on 2017? If you … Continue reading →

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Romantic Advent Calendar

Posted on November 29, 2016 by Debi Walter

Christmas is coming and it’s easy for our marriage to take a backseat to all the shopping and family outings. But it doesn’t have to be this way. Spend a few minutes now to plan some romance into your month in … Continue reading →

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Fighting For Thanks When You Don’t Feel Thankful

Posted on November 22, 2016 by Debi Walter

It’s that time of year again when everyone is talking about giving thanks to God for your lot in life. Well, what if you’re just not thankful? I get it.  Sometimes our life doesn’t look anything like we hoped it … Continue reading →

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Thirsty For Romance

Posted on November 17, 2016 by Debi Walter

  We are one week away from the day we set aside to give thanks to God and to those we love for what they mean to us all throughout the year. Our spouse is by far the best and … Continue reading →

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Thirsty For Romance

Posted on November 10, 2016 by Debi Walter

I don’t know about you, but this past month has been quite difficult for us. And the election was only a small part of it. We’ve dealt with health issues–our own and those of people we love. We’ve had a … Continue reading →

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Uncovering 5 Practices Detrimental To Marriage: The Final Two

Posted on November 7, 2016 by Debi Walter

The last two practices you may or may not realize you’re doing. This is why we want to shine the light on these two together. It happens when we listen to our spouse either with our mind made up based … Continue reading →

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Uncovering 5 Practices Detrimental To Marriage: Critical Judgments

Posted on November 2, 2016 by Debi Walter

You begin to share with your spouse about something that is really bothering you. Right as you are pouring your heart out to them, they ask a question about something else, revealing that they haven’t heard a word you’ve said. … Continue reading →

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Thirsty For Romance

Posted on October 27, 2016 by Debi Walter

Romance is the skill of communicating your commitment to, love for and enjoyment of your spouse in ways that convince him or her of the priority of your marriage. Romantic Tip: Do something unexpected and kind for your spouse, and … Continue reading →

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Uncovering 5 Practices Detrimental To Marriage: Suspicion

Posted on October 24, 2016 by Debi Walter

This is part two of our five part series on uncovering the practices or habits that are detrimental to marriage. Today we’ll expose another practice you may or may not be aware of in your own marriage. Suspicion Seventy-five years … Continue reading →

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Thirsty For Romance

Posted on October 20, 2016 by Debi Walter

We want to start a new segment on Thursdays we are calling,  “Thirsty For Romance” Imagine someone giving you a refreshing drink on a hot, summer day. We enjoy it. It feels good, and it invigorates us. Romance provides the … Continue reading →

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Uncovering 5 Practices Detrimental To Marriage: The Question Behind The Question

Posted on October 18, 2016 by Debi Walter

Stop signs are there for our protection and the safety of those around us. They help us know when to stop, think, observe, then proceed with caution. Can you imagine a world without STOP signs? Where everyone can proceed full-speed-ahead … Continue reading →

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Dissecting The Romantic Umbrella

Posted on October 10, 2016 by Debi Walter

We are members of The Christian Marriage Bloggers Association, and this month we have been challenged to write a post based on this beautiful photo by Kate Aldrich Photography of the One Flesh Marriage blog. When I saw this photo … Continue reading →

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The Secret To Deepening Your Relationship

Posted on October 4, 2016 by Debi Walter

It’s something with which most couples start off, but slowly over time neglect to the hurt of their relationship. Reclaiming this one practice is a secret to deepening your relationship and reclaiming what you’ve lost. What is this secret? Expressing … Continue reading →

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Make The Most Of Ordinary Days

Posted on September 26, 2016 by Debi Walter

Did you know that today is a holiday? It’s the day we celebrate the birth of Johnny Appleseed. Now, you may not celebrate it, but you could start. One of the best things about marriage is you always have someone … Continue reading →

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