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Category Archives: Christian Marriage
Avoiding The Door
Imagine living in a house that had one door you never opened; one room ignored. It is avoided because neither spouse wants to go there. Instead both go the long way around it as they live their days together. The … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, communication, Difficulty, Emotional, Growing Strong Marriages, Intimacy
Tagged disregarded, hard questions in marriage, I don’t feel heard, marriage, open door of communication
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Lessons from Yoda
We had a conversation with a young husband and father whom we have known since he was born. It was one of those talks where both of us were being encouraged; we were encouraging him with the gift God has … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, communication, Conflict, Forgiveness, Growing Strong Marriages, Keeping It Real
Tagged Conflict in Marriage, Lessons from Yoda, Name your fear
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Foodie Fridays – Salmon Tacos with Mango Peach Salsa
We love good food, so you can imagine how excited we were to travel to New England. We had visions of lobster this and lobster that, but unfortunately the food left us wanting. We don’t know if it was us … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays
Tagged cilantro lime crema, Foodie Fridays, mango peach salsa, recipes, Salmon tacos
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How To Stay Emotionally Connected In Marriage
Let’s face it, this isn’t an easy task in any season of marriage. Emotions differ from day-to-day, and if there is no intentional plans to stay connected, drift will happen. Drift is slow movement with no control of direction. Hardly … Continue reading
Posted in Biblical Encouragement, Christian Marriage, communication, Emotional, Intimacy
Tagged Andrew Murray, Emotional Connection, Humility
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When Love Feels Hard
Marriage isn’t always what we pictured on our wedding day. Some seasons feel more like dry, cracked ground—where misunderstandings pile up, hearts grow distant, and love feels like a duty, not a delight. I’ve been there. And if you’re honest, … Continue reading
Posted in Biblical Encouragement, Christian Marriage, Difficulty
Tagged Prayer, Surrender, When Love Feels Hard
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Goodbye Is Not The End
My heart has been grieving for the families devastated by the flood that swept their loved ones away. In an hour’s time, those who were are no more. My heart breaks for the loss of those I’ve never met, because … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Death and Grieving, Difficulty, Music, Prayer, Seasons of Life
Tagged Cain, Guadalupe River Flood, Psalm 34 18, Texas, The Commission
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Vintage Post – Your Past Does Not Define You
The following was first published in February 2019. I am often tempted to let my past influence my present. Maybe you can relate… Did you know that if you are a Christian your past sins no longer define you? You … Continue reading
Posted in Biblical Encouragement, Christian Marriage, Keeping It Real, Repentance, Temptation, Vintage Posts
Tagged Grace, Regret, Vintage Post, Your Past Doesn’t Define You
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Foodie Friday – Special Edition
I know we told you we were going to be away for a couple of weeks, and we are. But today something happened that is on the level of lifetime dreams for me (Debi). Tom and I both wanted to … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays
Tagged Erin French, Freedom Maine, The Lost Kitchen
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Up, Up and Away
Today marks the start of our summer vacation and 47 years since our first date. We are excited for the time away and wanted to let you know why our posts will be absent until July. We encourage you to … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Travel, Vacations
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Basking
Yesterday was Father’s Day. I planned a dinner for the dads in our life who live close. Our table was full—twelve souls gathered to delight in the gift of good fathers who love well. The meal was simple, but one … Continue reading
Posted in Celebrations, Christian Marriage, Holidays
Tagged Basking, Father's Day, Love of a Father
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Foodie Fridays – Glazed Ham Steak
Our grocery store has ham steaks on BOGO this week, so I put them in the cart not sure what I would do with them. At any rate, I knew it would be a quick dinner to prepare during a … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays
Tagged bourbon recipes, Father's Day, Foodie Fridays, Glazed ham steaks
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Fighting Fair
Fighting looks different for every marriage. * Some are silent fighters—the cold shoulder is their weapon of choice. * Some are score keepers—their weapon of choice is a list of wrongs suffered. * Some are angry—their weapon of choice is … Continue reading
Posted in Biblical Encouragement, Christian Marriage, Conflict, Difficulty, Growing Strong Marriages
Tagged Cherish, Fighting Fair, Gary Thomas
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Five Summer Date Nights
Summer doesn’t officially begin until June 20th, also known as Summer Solstice. But with our Florida heat, summer arrived here weeks ago! This is a great time to plan special dates because time slows down a bit and with longer … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Date Night Ideas, Summer Date Ideas
Tagged Romance in Marriage, Summer Date Ideas, summer solstice
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Foodie Fridays – Cherry Bourbon Crisp
Cherries are in season and they are one of Tom’s favorites. I was never a fan, but I’m learning to love them. Tom found this recipe he wanted me to try. He even offered pit all the cherries for me—he … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays
Tagged baking with bourbon, Bourbon Cherry Crisp, Cherry pitter, Foodie Fridays, Sally’s Baking Addiction, welcome summer
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Trusting God With Your Spouse’s Growth
We had the privilege of attending two weddings so far this year. Witnessing a new family being established under the covenant of marriage is something we don’t take lightly. Hearing the wedding vows are oftentimes over-the-top impossible to keep. Phrases … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Faith-filled Wednesdays
Tagged Faith, Marriage vows, Romans 8:28-30, trusting God with your spouse’s growth
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Marriage Forecast
Summer has begun in Florida with temperatures already reaching to the mid-90’s. These temps usually encourage afternoon thunderstorms. The cool ocean breeze blows in from the east and collides with the warmer Gulf breezes coming from the west. The result … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, communication, Conflict
Tagged marriage forecast
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Foodie Fridays – Italian Pasta Salad
Tom and I have been really sick the last two weeks. It has been a lot of waiting for this virus to take its course. For a while I had no smell or taste—which is awful when you try to … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays
Tagged Foodie Fridays, Italian Pasta Salad, Spend with Pennies
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Remembering…
Posted in Christian Marriage, honor, Memorial Day
Tagged Memorial Day, We Don’t Know Them All
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Vintage Post – Entering the Quiet—the Unbridled Tongue
Originally posted in 2012 I have always loved to talk–ask my family, ask my husband. It is something I enjoy doing. It wasn’t until the past few years though, when the Lord began arresting my attention in this area of … Continue reading
Posted in Boredom, Christian Marriage, Growing Strong Marriages, Vintage Posts
Tagged entering the quiet, Gary Thomas, Talk too much, unbridled tongue
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