Category Archives: communication

How Rude!

Posted on January 25, 2011 by Debi Walter

When our kids were little they loved the television sitcom, Full House.  We constantly had discussions about the bad attitudes displayed, including disrespect towards good old dad.  But the middle daughter was the queen of these attitudes.  Whenever anyone crossed … Continue reading →

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Mark Your Calendar

Posted on January 3, 2011 by Tom Walter

Welcome to 2011. As husbands and wives, it’s a fresh start.  For God it’s simply one more day in the life He’s called us to faithfully live.  He has a plan for every day, and as married couples He has … Continue reading →

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Another Award – Happy New Year

Posted on January 1, 2011 by Tom and Debi

Yesterday we discovered Paul Byerly, of The Generous Husband, picked The Romantic Vineyard to be included on his first list (maybe annual) Hot Marriage Blogs for 2010.  While this is solely his opinion, we find it quite the commendation since … Continue reading →

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As The Year End Approaches…

Posted on December 29, 2010 by Tom Walter

It’s time to plan some real one-on-one time together. Asking questions is a great way to help each other understand the past year, interpret the present and plan for the new year.  We’ve shared these questions before, but they always … Continue reading →

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Make Time to Take Time

Posted on December 23, 2010 by Tom and Debi

This is the Eve of Christmas Eve.  We are always looking for ways to make the most of our time together with friends and family, but more often than not, the day passes without any real or meaningful conversation.  It … Continue reading →

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Meekness – What It Is and Isn’t

Posted on November 18, 2010 by Tom and Debi

Before we begin digging deeper into what it looks like to cultivate this fruit in our lives, we must be clear on what it is and isn’t. Nancy Leigh DeMoss is using a book by Matthew Henry to dissect this … Continue reading →

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Marriage Bill of Rights

Posted on November 13, 2010 by Debi Walter

Have you ever had this thought about your spouse, “I have a right to be treated (fill in the blank!)?” We can enter into the marriage covenant with an unwritten lists of our personal rights and demands.  Everything is fine … Continue reading →

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Veterans Day – Letters Home

Posted on November 11, 2010 by Tom and Debi

Today would normally be our “Meekness” post, but we’ll forgo that until tomorrow.   Something far more important is drawing us.  It’s Veterans Day.  A day set aside to honor those who have served or are serving our country for … Continue reading →

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Project 52 – Pregnant Silence

Posted on November 2, 2010 by Debi Walter

Sitting in our favorite restaurant, we order our usual.  Life has been different, challenging and unpredictable.  But we are still US.  We talk about our day.  We talk about our calendars.  And then the conversation turns to what matters most. … Continue reading →

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A Fragrant Aroma: Honesty Breeds Intimacy

Posted on October 29, 2010 by Debi Walter

There have been two MAJOR times in our marriage when honesty – the painful kind of honesty you know is going to hurt your spouse – is necessary.  The first happened during our third year of marriage when I was … Continue reading →

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The Fruit Of The Spirit: Meekness

Posted on October 28, 2010 by Debi Walter

Meekness is also known as humility.  It is the soil from which all the other godly virtues grow.  How does one obtain meekness?  By taking every opportunity to humble yourself before God and men (including your spouse). I have developed … Continue reading →

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No Stuffing Allowed

Posted on October 13, 2010 by Debi Walter

It wasn’t what we expected.  The ship was full of mostly elderly couples.  There were as many wheelchairs as walkers, yet these couples were full of excitement to be touring New England in the Fall.  As excited as we were, … Continue reading →

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First Day of Fall

Posted on September 22, 2010 by Debi Walter

Today marks the first day of Autumn. This is by far my favorite time of the year.  I know many who feel the same way.  What is it about this time of year that evokes such affection? Maybe it’s the … Continue reading →

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A Fragrant Aroma: Papa on Duty

Posted on September 10, 2010 by Tom Walter

I thought it would be good for the men to hear about my side of “Nana on Duty“. First of all, I had a very hectic week at work with a new customer.  As a result I was providentially hindered … Continue reading →

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Project 52: Comfort Food

Posted on August 17, 2010 by Debi Walter

This weekend Tom had to go out of state for his work.  He would be coming home on Monday night – our regular date night.  On top of this our daughter was having her wisdom teeth removed on Monday morning.  … Continue reading →

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A Keeper

Posted on August 7, 2010 by Debi Walter

Laid out on my bedroom floor are 32 years of memories. All taken from my special drawer – the place where I put things which are too precious to throw away. There is a plaque of our wedding invitation a … Continue reading →

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Freebie Friday: A Soul Filled With God

Posted on June 18, 2010 by Tom and Debi

Gary Thomas has written a devotional book for couples titled, Devotions for a Sacred Marriage.  Today we want to share with you one devotion that has had a profound effect on us.  The amazing thing is – this is what … Continue reading →

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Project 52: Playing Catch Up

Posted on June 15, 2010 by Debi Walter

No, this isn’t a creative new game to play on your next night out – it’s one of those dates that are necessary from time to time. And one we desperately needed after the past two weeks. In Europe it … Continue reading →

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Freebie Friday: “Friendly” Advice

Posted on June 4, 2010 by Tom and Debi

Actually we have three things to offer you today: The first is in celebration of National Donut Day, which is TODAY. Check out these Freebies: Dunkin Donuts is offering a free donut with a beverage purchase. Krispy Kreme is offering … Continue reading →

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Makes You Think

Posted on May 12, 2010 by Tom and Debi

I love quotes by people who are smarter than me – that’s most of the population…but let’s not focus on my lack.  🙂  There are people who say deep and profound things that reveal a level of understanding with which … Continue reading →

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