Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

2018 Date Night Challenge – The Letter “L”

Posted on May 23, 2018 by Debi Walter

Our date began with a delicious LOBSTER dinner that Tom grilled for us. I normally prefer crab legs to lobster, but this 1.5 lb. lobster tail was cooked to perfection. Next, we set up our LIVING room for a night … Continue reading →

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What Is THE MOST Important Aspect of a Healthy Marriage?

Posted on May 21, 2018 by Debi Walter

Do you know what the most important aspect of a healthy marriage is? We believe it’s communication. Learn how to talk, listen and respond in a God-glorifying way and your marriage is sure to not only survive, but thrive. We … Continue reading →

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Wordless Wednesday

Posted on May 9, 2018 by Debi Walter
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2018 Date Night Challenge – The Letter “K”

Posted on May 5, 2018 by Debi Walter

Kayaking! The first time we went kayaking was through Groupon where we got half-price tickets to a Full-Moon Paddle on Lake Maitland. It was a great experience. We discovered that we love this sport, even more than canoeing. Kayaks are … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on May 4, 2018 by Debi Walter

Ask Pastor John Is Oral Sex Okay? – John Piper answers this common question for married couples wanting to know. Gary Thomas The Ebb and Flow Of Physical Attraction in Marriage – a good reminder. Intimacy In Marriage Sex Isn’t … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Meet The Gardners

Posted on May 4, 2018 by Debi Walter

(originally posted on April 23, 2013) Have you ever heard your spouse talk about someone over and over, but never had the chance to meet them? Someone they had met before you were together? You’ve heard so much about them … Continue reading →

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2018 Date Night Challenge – “J” Date

Posted on April 30, 2018 by Debi Walter

This date has made the letter “J” my favorite so far in our Date Night Challenge. Tom knows how much I love music. When it’s performed LIVE, of high quality, and the genre I love (JAZZ), it doesn’t get much … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on April 27, 2018 by Debi Walter

It’s time for some of our favorite blog posts from the past week. Take some time a read these excellent posts. Your marriage will thank you! Gary Thomas The Evil In Marriage We Rarely Mention – This post will make you … Continue reading →

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Consider This…

Posted on April 27, 2018 by Debi Walter

We have a neighbor whose husband passed away a couple of weeks ago. Several of us who live in the neighborhood went over to share our condolences and bring a gift of remembrance to her. It was a sweet time … Continue reading →

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Wordless Wednesday

Posted on April 25, 2018 by Debi Walter
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In To Me See – An Invitation Reserved For One

Posted on April 23, 2018 by Debi Walter

“In to me see” is a term our pastor coined for intimacy. If done right we are inviting our spouse to see into our lives in a way no one else does. It is for their eyes, ears and heart … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – The De-Masking Of Prince Charming

Posted on April 20, 2018 by Debi Walter

(Originally posted on June 27, 2012) Each of us on a specific day of a specific year stood before others and exchanged our marriage vows. Most likely we were full of great anticipation of this being our fairy tale come … Continue reading →

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Wordless Wednesday

Posted on April 18, 2018 by Debi Walter
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The Power of Influence

Posted on April 13, 2018 by Debi Walter

If I were to ask you, “Who do you influence the most in your life? In your marriage?” Would you have a quick answer? I believe it would do us well to consider the answer for knowing WHOM we influence … Continue reading →

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Wordless Wednesday

Posted on April 11, 2018 by Debi Walter
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2018 Date Night Challenge – “I” Date

Posted on April 9, 2018 by Debi Walter

This date came about fairly easily. It was my turn to plan, and there happened to be a new movie I wanted to see. It doesn’t always work this way, but when it does–go for it!! I Can Only Imagine … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Grace Given Brings Peace

Posted on April 6, 2018 by Debi Walter

(Originally posted on April, 21, 2010) It is late. It has been one of those nights where I am filled with emotions I don’t understand, much less expect my husband to understand.   Yet I try.  I strive to communicate honestly, … Continue reading →

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Wordless Wednesday

Posted on April 4, 2018 by Debi Walter
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Going, Not Knowing

Posted on April 2, 2018 by Debi Walter

On this Easter Sunday I’m reminded of another Easter. 1985. It was our last Sunday in the church where Tom and I met. This was the place where we had memorized so many scriptures because the senior pastor’s wife was … Continue reading →

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Celebrating Easter – The Motivation For All We Do

Posted on April 1, 2018 by Debi Walter
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