Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

When Love Feels Hard

Posted on July 14, 2025 by Debi Walter

Marriage isn’t always what we pictured on our wedding day. Some seasons feel more like dry, cracked ground—where misunderstandings pile up, hearts grow distant, and love feels like a duty, not a delight. I’ve been there. And if you’re honest, … Continue reading →

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Goodbye Is Not The End

Posted on July 9, 2025 by Debi Walter

My heart has been grieving for the families devastated by the flood that swept their loved ones away. In an hour’s time, those who were are no more. My heart breaks for the loss of those I’ve never met, because … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Your Past Does Not Define You

Posted on July 7, 2025 by Debi Walter

The following was first published in February 2019. I am often tempted to let my past influence my present. Maybe you can relate… Did you know that if you are a Christian your past sins no longer define you? You … Continue reading →

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Foodie Friday – Special Edition

Posted on June 27, 2025 by Debi Walter

I know we told you we were going to be away for a couple of weeks, and we are. But today something happened that is on the level of lifetime dreams for me (Debi). Tom and I both wanted to … Continue reading →

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Up, Up and Away

Posted on June 18, 2025 by Debi Walter

Today marks the start of our summer vacation and 47 years since our first date. We are excited for the time away and wanted to let you know why our posts will be absent until July. We encourage you to … Continue reading →

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Basking

Posted on June 16, 2025 by Debi Walter

Yesterday was Father’s Day. I planned a dinner for the dads in our life who live close. Our table was full—twelve souls gathered to delight in the gift of good fathers who love well. The meal was simple, but one … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Glazed Ham Steak

Posted on June 13, 2025 by Debi Walter

Our grocery store has ham steaks on BOGO this week, so I put them in the cart not sure what I would do with them. At any rate, I knew it would be a quick dinner to prepare during a … Continue reading →

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Fighting Fair

Posted on June 9, 2025 by Debi Walter

Fighting looks different for every marriage. * Some are silent fighters—the cold shoulder is their weapon of choice. * Some are score keepers—their weapon of choice is a list of wrongs suffered. * Some are angry—their weapon of choice is … Continue reading →

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Five Summer Date Nights

Posted on June 7, 2025 by Debi Walter

Summer doesn’t officially begin until June 20th, also known as Summer Solstice. But with our Florida heat, summer arrived here weeks ago! This is a great time to plan special dates because time slows down a bit and with longer … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Cherry Bourbon Crisp

Posted on June 5, 2025 by Debi Walter

Cherries are in season and they are one of Tom’s favorites. I was never a fan, but I’m learning to love them. Tom found this recipe he wanted me to try. He even offered pit all the cherries for me—he … Continue reading →

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Trusting God With Your Spouse’s Growth

Posted on June 4, 2025 by Debi Walter

We had the privilege of attending two weddings so far this year. Witnessing a new family being established under the covenant of marriage is something we don’t take lightly. Hearing the wedding vows are oftentimes over-the-top impossible to keep. Phrases … Continue reading →

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Marriage Forecast

Posted on June 2, 2025 by Debi Walter

Summer has begun in Florida with temperatures already reaching to the mid-90’s. These temps usually encourage afternoon thunderstorms. The cool ocean breeze blows in from the east and collides with the warmer Gulf breezes coming from the west. The result … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Italian Pasta Salad

Posted on May 30, 2025 by Debi Walter

Tom and I have been really sick the last two weeks. It has been a lot of waiting for this virus to take its course. For a while I had no smell or taste—which is awful when you try to … Continue reading →

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Remembering…

Posted on May 26, 2025 by Debi Walter
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Foodie Fridays – Rhubarb Spoon Cake

Posted on May 23, 2025 by Debi Walter

I love it when Tom finds a recipe he wants me to make. Recently he came upon this recipe from Erin French of The Lost Kitchen. I thought it would be like a cobbler, but it wasn’t. The cake was … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Entering the Quiet—the Unbridled Tongue

Posted on May 21, 2025 by Debi Walter

Originally posted in 2012 I have always loved to talk–ask my family, ask my husband. It is something I enjoy doing. It wasn’t until the past few years though, when the Lord began arresting my attention in this area of … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Cultivating the Quiet in Your Marriage

Posted on May 19, 2025 by Debi Walter

Originally posted in 2012. A timely reminder This week we are delving into the depths of cultivating the quiet in our minds, hearts and marriages. It may be something you’ve thought about often, or you may be venturing into unknown … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Tuscan Shrimp Pasta

Posted on May 16, 2025 by Debi Walter

A few years ago Tom and I went on Whole 30 diet to figure out what foods were causing me trouble. He is amazing in how he’ll go out of his way to curb his appetite to help me when … Continue reading →

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On A Roll

Posted on May 14, 2025 by Debi Walter

Have you ever accomplished something together that makes you happier than you expected it would? We did a few days ago. The goal started in 2019. We had set aside time to clean out and organize our garage. But then … Continue reading →

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Life is Hard, But God is Good

Posted on May 12, 2025 by Debi Walter

Years ago when our kids were teenagers and still at home, a song by this title was released. It resonated with me because raising teens was the hardest thing I had yet to encounter. The Lord brought this song to … Continue reading →

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