Author Archives: Tom Walter

Cultivating Patience

Posted on April 8, 2010 by Tom Walter

One who plants a vineyard quickly discovers there is much work and devotion involved in caring for the vines. In our society we have become so far removed from the farmer’s perspective; we want fresh produce so we go to … Continue reading →

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McRomance

Posted on April 1, 2010 by Tom Walter

We just learned of a new marketing plan with America’s favorite fast food restaurant – McDonald’s.  Restaurant officials say that due to the success of their McCafe’s, they will begin drawing the date night crowd to many of their locations … Continue reading →

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A Silent Maturity

Posted on March 24, 2010 by Tom Walter

A couple of weeks ago we began a discussion about “Words” and the effect they have on our marriage – either for good or bad.  We referenced the verse from  Proverbs 15 that says,  “A soft answer turns away wrath, … Continue reading →

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Husbands…Love!

Posted on March 18, 2010 by Tom Walter

Concerning the husband’s responsibility to love his wife, J. R. Miller offers these thoughts: “Each member of the household has a part in the family life and fullest happiness and blessedness of the home can be attained only when each … Continue reading →

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Freebie Friday: Encouragement

Posted on March 12, 2010 by Tom Walter

“But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called “today,” that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.”    Hebrews 3:13 ESV How often we need encouragement to see that we’re making progress in … Continue reading →

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Where Are We Going?

Posted on March 10, 2010 by Tom Walter

This is a good question we should ask ourselves often:  Where do we want to be 10, 15 or 20 years from now in our marriages?  Once you have a clear vision in view, the next question is: What choices … Continue reading →

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Change of Plans

Posted on February 25, 2010 by Tom Walter

I know we mentioned we were going to continue our discussion about the effect words have on marriage today.  However, I’ve decided to whisk my wife away to celebrate our anniversary (Wednesday night), which left us no time to offer … Continue reading →

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Refuge From The Hurt of Tongues

Posted on February 23, 2010 by Tom Walter

“The gift of speech is one of the noblest that God has given to man. It was meant to be loving, true, wise, enriching, and full of blessing. God gave us our tongues that with them we might speak to … Continue reading →

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Freebie Friday: Marriage And The Mercy of God

Posted on February 19, 2010 by Tom Walter

We mentioned a couple of weeks ago our privilege to attend a wonderful marriage conference being held at our church.  There were four sessions in all titled: When Sinners Say ‘I Do’ – Sin When Sinners Say ‘I Do’ – … Continue reading →

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Pirates of our Union

Posted on February 11, 2010 by Tom Walter

I know that is a strange title, but you’ll see what we mean.  To continue from our post on Tuesday, we want to explore those things that nip away the romance from our marriage.  We eluded to them then, but … Continue reading →

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Drifting

Posted on February 9, 2010 by Tom Walter

Valentine’s Day is Sunday, but as Christians we should celebrate the love we share as husbands and wives regularly, not annually.  If we are not pursuing our spouse with the same purpose and intent as when we first met, then … Continue reading →

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National Marriage Week

Posted on February 4, 2010 by Tom Walter

Beginning Sunday, February 7th is National Marriage Week.  It’s a week designated to draw attention to the importance of strengthening marriage in all cultures.  Strong marriages strengthen the society in which we live.  Take some time to evaluate your own … Continue reading →

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Cravings Underlie Conflict

Posted on February 2, 2010 by Tom Walter

It’s bound to occur at some point – a wonderful date night has been planned and greatly anticipated.  Hopes are high for love and unfettered romance, then it happens – a fight ensues, and the evening ends up a far … Continue reading →

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Take Your Medicine

Posted on January 28, 2010 by Tom Walter

The Bible says in Proverbs, “A merry heart does good, like medicine”.  How true! It seems to us that life has been quite serious as of late.  We are busy comforting those who have lost loved ones, helping those who … Continue reading →

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Mirroring God’s Image

Posted on January 21, 2010 by Tom Walter

Once again we provide you with an excellent article from Moments Together For Couples.  You can receive these devotionals each day via e-mail.  Simply follow the link to sign up! To Mirror God’s Image Genesis 1:27 And God created man … Continue reading →

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No Greater Love

Posted on January 19, 2010 by Tom Walter

How strong would you say your marriage is? Are you equipped to face the unexpected challenges that are bound to come? How can anyone be prepared? Only by trusting in a Sovereign God who knows us and our spouse better … Continue reading →

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The Ideal Christian Life

Posted on January 14, 2010 by Tom Walter

We came across this essay from Grace Gems, that so impacted us we had to share it with you.  It’s truth applies to all we face today… The ‘picture’ of the ideal Christian life! (J. R. Miller, “A Word About … Continue reading →

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Journey Worth Your Time

Posted on January 7, 2010 by Tom Walter

The Bible tells us about the wise man who built his house upon the Rock, though the winds blew and rains came, it didn’t fall down.  Such a strong foundation for our marriage is the Word of God.  It provides … Continue reading →

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Freebie Friday – A Gift

Posted on December 18, 2009 by Tom Walter

We recently watched one of our favorite Christmas movies: It’s A Wonderful Life.  In it George Bailey faces enormous pressures from his work that affects his entire family.  He becomes so depressed he wishes he had never been born.  The … Continue reading →

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Unmet Expectations

Posted on December 15, 2009 by Tom Walter

“It’s the most wonderful time of the year…” or so the song goes.  But is it really?  I have found often times this time of year is full of trouble – the kind that is unavoidable, which leads to a … Continue reading →

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