Category Archives: Growing Strong Marriages

Project 52 – Pregnant Silence

Sitting in our favorite restaurant, we order our usual.  Life has been different, challenging and unpredictable.  But we are still US.  We talk about our day.  We talk about our calendars.  And then the conversation turns to what matters most. … Continue reading

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The Fruit Of The Spirit: Meekness

Meekness is also known as humility.  It is the soil from which all the other godly virtues grow.  How does one obtain meekness?  By taking every opportunity to humble yourself before God and men (including your spouse). I have developed … Continue reading

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Staycation – Day Four

Have you ever been on a road trip and happened upon an attraction you had never seen before?  Taking the time to get out of the car and explore an unknown place can be very rewarding, and this is what … Continue reading

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Staycation – Day Two

Today our Cyber Travels take us to The Generous Husband blog. The author’s name is Paul, and he has been blogging on growing strong, healthy marriages for a long time.  We have benefited greatly from his thoughtful posts, including one … Continue reading

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Staycation – Day One

We all know what vacation is – it is the time families refrain from work and their normal routine to go away for a little while to relax and be refreshed.  A Staycation is the same, but instead of leaving … Continue reading

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A Fragrant Aroma: Playing Defense

Not being a huge sports fan, it’s funny that the Lord brought this metaphor to my mind.  I know it was Him, because I wouldn’t even think in these terms, but sadly I’ve been living them.  Maybe you will relate. … Continue reading

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The Fruit of the Spirit: Goodness

“Goodness: The moral qualities which constitute christian excellence; moral virtue.” Webster’s 1828 Dictionary What constitutes a good husband, a good wife?  Is it what they do or who they are? We believe it’s both.  We all recognize good husbands who … Continue reading

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No Stuffing Allowed

It wasn’t what we expected.  The ship was full of mostly elderly couples.  There were as many wheelchairs as walkers, yet these couples were full of excitement to be touring New England in the Fall.  As excited as we were, … Continue reading

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The Fruit of the Spirit: Kindness

Today we’re talking about kindness.  Everyone knows what kindness is.  It is the one trait that sends us into our day with a smile on our face.  It is the one trait missing when we’ve been cut off in traffic.  … Continue reading

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Fruit of the Spirit: Patience or Long-Suffering

Consider with us the patience of a winemaker. He oversees the vineyard, monitoring it’s quality and growth, guarding against pests and inclement weather to the best of his ability. Next comes the harvest – he determines when to pick the … Continue reading

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First Day of Fall

Today marks the first day of Autumn. This is by far my favorite time of the year.  I know many who feel the same way.  What is it about this time of year that evokes such affection? Maybe it’s the … Continue reading

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The Fruit of the Spirit: Peace

It’s good to remember the Fruit of the Spirit is one fruit with nine attributes.  This means nine virtues which are evident in ever growing measure in the life of a believer.  This being said – today we focus on … Continue reading

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A Fragrant Aroma: Papa on Duty

I thought it would be good for the men to hear about my side of “Nana on Duty“. First of all, I had a very hectic week at work with a new customer.  As a result I was providentially hindered … Continue reading

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Fruit of the Spirit: Joy

In our second aspect of the Fruit of the Spirit, we discover it is joy!  Joy is not happiness, per se, but a bubbling up in the soul contented with God, Himself.  If we are lacking joy – know this … Continue reading

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Nana On Duty

It is late.  I am tired.  But I will share briefly what is on my heart. Our daughter and son-in-law are enjoying a week away celebrating their 5 years together.  Amazing to think it’s been half a decade since my … Continue reading

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Fruit of the Spirit: Love

Can you imagine owning a vineyard where the fruit is always ripe and fresh, no matter the season?  There would be no need, no worries, no fear of the future.  This is what the Fruit of the Spirit produces in … Continue reading

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The Marriage Stage

It’s easy to think a good marriage is played out with beautiful background music by a well dressed symphony orchestra.  The stage is lined with dimly lit candles adding the perfect ambiance.  The main characters always know what to say … Continue reading

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Freebie Friday: Meet Chad and Sarah Markley

We have had the privilege of getting to know this couple through the blog Sarah writes titled, Best Days of My Life.  She is an excellent writer, but what makes her writing worth reading is her heart to serve God … Continue reading

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Freebie Friday : A Challenge That Will Make You…

…LAUGH! That’s right!  How would you like to take us up on a challenge to look at the lighter side of life – to actually (LOL) laugh out loud, when you would normally react in anger? It’s a simple challenge … Continue reading

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Mark Your Calendar

Welcome to another week in the life of your marriage.  What will it hold?  What memories are waiting to be made?  How will life and love play out in this 7 day period? Recently, I had the privilege of listening … Continue reading

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