Category Archives: Growing Strong Marriages

The Ideal Christian Life

We came across this essay from Grace Gems, that so impacted us we had to share it with you.  It’s truth applies to all we face today… The ‘picture’ of the ideal Christian life! (J. R. Miller, “A Word About … Continue reading

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Freebie Friday: A Fresh Look

Today we offer you a fresh look at a familiar passage of scripture as shared from the book, Counsel From The Cross, by Elyse Fitzpatrick and Dennis E. Johnson.  Please take a moment to slowly consider what they are saying … Continue reading

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Journey Worth Your Time

The Bible tells us about the wise man who built his house upon the Rock, though the winds blew and rains came, it didn’t fall down.  Such a strong foundation for our marriage is the Word of God.  It provides … Continue reading

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Vintage Posts

Consider Your Ways was originally posted on December 28, 2008.    It provides great questions to ask as the New Year approaches.

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Freebie Friday – A Gift

We recently watched one of our favorite Christmas movies: It’s A Wonderful Life.  In it George Bailey faces enormous pressures from his work that affects his entire family.  He becomes so depressed he wishes he had never been born.  The … Continue reading

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Unmet Expectations

“It’s the most wonderful time of the year…” or so the song goes.  But is it really?  I have found often times this time of year is full of trouble – the kind that is unavoidable, which leads to a … Continue reading

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Leaning

This past Sunday, Josh Harris spoke at Metro Life Church on the topic of “Trusting in the Lord” taken from Proverbs 3:5-6.  It was a great message and one worth keeping.  One point that has stayed with us is the … Continue reading

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Like No One Else

Recently Tom and I were talking with a good friend about some issues for which we care deeply.  As I was asked my thoughts on the conversation, I was immediately overcome with emotion and couldn’t speak. Our friend asked what … Continue reading

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“Showing Love” Check Up

“By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers.” 1 John 3:16 I had a very good conversation with my two married daughters yesterday.  When … Continue reading

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Watch Your Step

Debi and I had the opportunity to go on a hike in the Sequoia National Forest a few years ago.  As we set out on the trail, Debi was struck by the number of cow patties dotting the trail. I … Continue reading

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Swim Lessons

We came across this quote that is in true C.S. Lewis form.  Are you growing in your ability to swim or are you longing for the thrills you had paddling as a boy? Swim! “People get from books the idea … Continue reading

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Keep Current

Living in Florida we have had the joy of tubing down a river enjoying the scenery and the cool, refreshing water.  There is nothing quite as relaxing and fun as spending hours together floating down the springs.  However, it is … Continue reading

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A Sponge or a Spring?

All married couples desire to have it.  What is it?  Romance.  However, romance in itself is not the answer.  If it was then all we would need is Hollywood.  Romance is the outflow of all the right stuff in our … Continue reading

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Communication Trouble…No Wonder!

Below is an excerpt from Mark Gungor’s comedy routine, and it will certainly make you laugh.  Left to ourselves this is true about how men and women communicate, but we can change for God’s glory.  Be sure to check out … Continue reading

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Peace Meal

We all need it, and when we don’t have it we miss it!  What is it?  Peace!  I receive a weekly “Peace Meal” via e-mail.  It comes every so often, but when it does, it is usually the exact Truth … Continue reading

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Cultivating Our Friendship

We have been away this past weekend at a conference for biblical counseling in Jacksonville, and then a little personal time away in Savannah.  We’ll post “Mark Your Calendar” tomorrow.  For today we thought we’d talk about cultivating a lasting … Continue reading

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Stewards of our Spouse

A Steward is someone entrusted with managing someone else’s property and doing so according to their interests. Have you ever thought that we are stewards of our spouse to God?  Ben Patterson explains in his excellent message,  The Goodness of … Continue reading

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Freebie Friday: The Gospel-Centered Marriage

“Only let your manner of life be worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or am absent, I may hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind … Continue reading

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Reflecting Him

The following is a portion of an article titled, Is There Hope For American Marriage?, by Family Life author, Dave Boehi: Few people know much about what the Bible says about marriage. They are surprised to learn that, as described … Continue reading

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Adorning The Gospel

Our church’s marriage retreat this past weekend far surpassed our expectations.  We were reminded of the Gospel and it’s impact on our daily lives, taught truths found in the Bible and encouraged practically in how to make this work in … Continue reading

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