Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

A Gift to Avoid Drift

Posted on August 30, 2018 by Debi Walter

For my birthday this year Tom has committed to work out with me at home. He went so far and quit his gym membership too, so I knew he was serious. I am excited for this new chapter in our … Continue reading →

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2018 Date Night Challenge – The Letter “Q”

Posted on August 27, 2018 by Debi Walter

I remember the last time we did the alphabet dates I had the letter “Q” as well. Can I just say I think I should get extra points since this letter is so difficult? But I’m Quite happy to say… … Continue reading →

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Wake Up Call

Posted on August 21, 2018 by Debi Walter

This has been a difficult week for our church family. A dear friend and long time member of our church had a massive heart attack last Tuesday morning. They were just enjoying normal life when this crisis hit them unexpectedly. … Continue reading →

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This One Practice Produces Change

Posted on August 14, 2018 by Debi Walter

In our last post we talked about the detriment it is to have a condemning spirit towards your spouse. Today we want to talk about the antidote. In the Christian life the antidote to a condemning spirit is a grateful … Continue reading →

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Here Comes The Judge

Posted on August 10, 2018 by Debi Walter

Our pastor preached on Romans 8 this past Sunday. It was a good reminder of the freedom we have in Christ, and an encouragement to no longer live in condemnation. He said something at the end though, that made me … Continue reading →

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Marriage Creed

Posted on August 6, 2018 by Debi Walter

We visited a church yesterday while staying with our daughter and her husband in Arkansas. In the lobby they had their creed on display for all to see. It was captivating and encouraged discussion. This caused me to consider what … Continue reading →

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2018 Date Night Challenge – The Letter “P”

Posted on July 30, 2018 by Debi Walter

Tom planned something that I love to do on this date–go to a PLAY. This one was The Wiz, one I had not seen before. Being an avid fan of The Wizard of Oz, I was really looking forward to … Continue reading →

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A Closer Look at What Bores You

Posted on July 23, 2018 by Debi Walter

Living life with the same person becomes familiar as it should over time. But when the familiar becomes boring this can be the sign there is something else at play. Jon Bloom wrote an excellent article on the Desiring God … Continue reading →

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2018 Date Night Challenge – The Letter “O”

Posted on July 20, 2018 by Debi Walter

I struggled with planning this date because I wanted to do something different that Tom would enjoy. Of course there are the obvious “O’s” from which one could choose, but like I said I wanted something fun and unique. Then … Continue reading →

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My Marriage Is Mediocre—Now What?

Posted on July 18, 2018 by Debi Walter

In our last post we shared 11 possible indicators your marriage might be mediocre. Today we want to offer some practical tips to help get you out of this trap. As a reminder here is our list: Your life revolves … Continue reading →

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11 Possible Indicators You Have A Mediocre Marriage

Posted on July 16, 2018 by Debi Walter

MEDIOCRE. Just the sound of it is blah, don’t you think? I looked up the definition and found this interesting… One of the things that is remarkable about mediocre is the extent to which it has retained its meaning over … Continue reading →

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Romantic Graphic for July

Posted on July 4, 2018 by Debi Walter
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Marriage Markers to See and Follow

Posted on July 2, 2018 by Debi Walter

Tom and I visited Sequoia National Park several years ago. We decided to hike a trail through the giant trees. We were encouraged to try a shorter trail requiring little experience. As we headed out we found one that said … Continue reading →

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2018 Date Night Challenge – The Letter “N”

Posted on June 29, 2018 by Debi Walter

This date was simple, but stands out as a favorite! Tom went with a “New York” theme starting with NEW YORK STRIP steaks cooked perfectly on the grill. 😊 I made a playlist on our Amazon Prime Music account of … Continue reading →

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2018 Date Night Challenge – The Letter “M”

Posted on June 25, 2018 by Debi Walter

It was my turn to plan a date. We drove to the mall where we took an hour to do our 10.5.1 Mall Date. We hadn’t done this in a few years, so it felt fresh. The idea is to … Continue reading →

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Where Will This Trail Lead?

Posted on June 22, 2018 by Debi Walter

Summer. The time when many of us plan family vacations to see places we’ve not seen before. I know some friends who have made it their goal to visit every National Park in America, and so far they’ve made it … Continue reading →

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Local Date Night Gems – Datin’ At The Crepevine

Posted on June 8, 2018 by Debi Walter

Today’s post is by a close friend and fellow blogger, Bonnie Anderson. We were talking recently about a great place she and her husband discovered that I had never been to. I asked if she would share her experience with … Continue reading →

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Is Your View Of Marriage Too Small?

Posted on June 7, 2018 by Debi Walter

If you are a parent you know the challenge it is getting your child to see the big picture of why they do things. I remember asking my children to pick up their room cluttered with every toy from their … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Sizzlin’ Summer Dates

Posted on June 4, 2018 by Debi Walter

Originally posted June 16, 2010 When the heat is on, our dates can be challenging.  We love spending time outdoors, but when the mercury climbs over 90 degrees it certainly puts a damper on those plans.  This is why we’ve … Continue reading →

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Stay Cool This Summer With These 7 Hot Date Ideas

Posted on May 28, 2018 by Debi Walter

Ah, Summer. The time to venture outside into the sunshine and warmth of longer days. Unless… …you live in Florida. Summer here is humid…                                 … Continue reading →

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