Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

Attributes of a Healthy Marriage – Friendship

Posted on November 7, 2017 by Debi Walter

This one may seem like a given, but it isn’t. We have encountered far too many couples who after years of marriage have nothing in common. This is a dangerous place to be. We become vulnerable to the wiles of … Continue reading →

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Honestly, Honesty is Hard

Posted on October 31, 2017 by Debi Walter

The title says it all. In our last post we shared that honesty was an attribute of a healthy marriage. We received lots of comments about how difficult this is to do. Billy Joel sings it well… If you search … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on October 27, 2017 by Debi Walter

It’s time for our weekly specials – those blog posts that we have discovered and think are worth your time to read over the weekend. Enjoy… Gary Thomas Will You Comfort Her? – Such a simple expression of kindness that … Continue reading →

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Attributes of a Healthy Marriage – Honesty

Posted on October 25, 2017 by Debi Walter

At the start of this post, I need to make it clear that there are two types of honesty that can impact a marriage–the healthy kind (which we’ll discuss in today’s post), and the unhealthy kind. The unhealthy kind chooses … Continue reading →

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The Rhythm Of Routine

Posted on October 18, 2017 by Debi Walter

I am up early this morning; my favorite part of the day. The house is quiet. A candle flickers on the table. My Bible is in hand. It’s my time with the One who knows me best and loves me … Continue reading →

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The Attributes of a Healthy Marriage – Cherish

Posted on October 16, 2017 by Debi Walter

Cherish is a word most of us use in our wedding vows, but most likely don’t realize what it means. Cherish: to keep or cultivate with care and affection; to entertain or harbor in the mind deeply and resolutely;  (“Cherish.” Merriam-Webster.com. … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on October 13, 2017 by Debi Walter

Hot, Holy and Humorous Are You A High-Maintenance Lover? – This post is an excellent way to evaluate the quality of your sex life. You might be surprised to discover you are, indeed, “high maintenance”. Messy Marriage 4 Ways Satan … Continue reading →

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Keeping The Home Fires Burning

Posted on October 13, 2017 by Debi Walter

Tom was two badges shy of becoming an Eagle Scout when he quit, a choice he regrets to this day, yet what he learned during his Boy Scout training is so valuable.  I have benefited from his knowledge and skill … Continue reading →

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The Attributes of a Healthy Marriage – TRUST

Posted on October 3, 2017 by Debi Walter

So often we focus on what not to do, and miss the things we can do to improve our marriage. Thus, I want to begin a series focusing on the many attributes of a healthy marriage. Attribute One – TRUST … Continue reading →

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Spiraling Upward – Five Exercises to Start The Process

Posted on September 25, 2017 by Debi Walter

We’ve all heard of the downward spiral in marriage. One negative word leads to another which leads to neglecting each other and so it begins. Oftentimes its harmless at first. It may start with off-handed criticisms said in a joking … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on September 22, 2017 by Debi Walter

It’s time to share with you posts that stood out to us this week. We pray you’ll find the time to browse the list and read the posts that will help your marriage improve. God bless you and have a … Continue reading →

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Indescribable

Posted on September 20, 2017 by Debi Walter

Being a native Floridian, I have always loved watching storms roll in from a distance. Our skies are big making it easy to see when a storm is brewing. Hurricanes are the most powerful storms I’ve witnessed, and Irma is … Continue reading →

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Five Things A Hurricane Is Teaching Me About Marriage

Posted on September 7, 2017 by Debi Walter

If you didn’t know, we live in Orlando, FL. For days all eyes have been on the forecast track  of what has been declared the strongest Atlantic basin hurricane ever produced. Meet Irma!  She is strong. She is determined. She … Continue reading →

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Happy False Labor Day NOT!

Posted on September 4, 2017 by Debi Walter

It was February of 1984. I was 24, Tom was 29. We were expecting our second baby any day. I was 10 days past my due date, when the familiar labor pains began. I was ready to meet my baby. … Continue reading →

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Pierced & Embraced – A Review

Posted on August 16, 2017 by Debi Walter

I was recently provided a copy of Kelli Worrall’s new book titled, Pierced & Embraced. It is an excellent book examining the encounters Christ had with seven women as recorded in the Gospels. I was riveted from the outset. You … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on August 4, 2017 by Debi Walter

It’s time to share some of our favorites from this week. Take some time this weekend and check these posts out. It’s worth your time… The Forgiven Wife After All That Effort, Now He’s The One Who Doesn’t Want Sex … Continue reading →

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16 Tips on Marriage from the Longest Married Couple in America

Posted on August 1, 2017 by Debi Walter

The year was 1932. The Great Depression was in full swing, but a celebration of love was taking place in November of that year. John and Ann Betar eloped after fleeing Connecticut because Ann's father had arranged her to marry … Continue reading →

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Old Age Fresh Love

Posted on July 28, 2017 by Debi Walter

“Come grow old with me. The best is yet to be” is a quote lovers use often to express their devotion. However, when old age is knocking on the door it doesn’t seem to have the same romantic appeal. It is … Continue reading →

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“You Are So Beautiful To Me”

Posted on July 28, 2017 by Debi Walter

Wives, how many of you have heard your husband say this to you? I would imagine most of us would say we have, but do you believe him? Or do you find yourself arguing or rejecting his compliments? You may … Continue reading →

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Magnifying Respect In Marriage

Posted on July 25, 2017 by Debi Walter

When asked, “Do you respect your spouse?” Most of us would answer a quick YES! It’s necessary to examine respect to see if we know what we’re talking about. Webster’s 1828 Dictionary defines it this way: RESPECT’, verb transitive – … Continue reading →

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