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Author Archives: Debi Walter
Marriage A Mess Worth Making – Part 2
If you missed the first post in this series…you need to click here so as not to miss the flow of today’s post. The book, Relationships A Mess Worth Making, goes on to provide “seven tendencies of the sinful heart … Continue reading
Marriage A Mess Worth Making – Part 1
Marriage can be messy. If you’re fairly new to it, you may be discouraged thinking something is wrong with yours. If you’ve been married for awhile, you may discouraged thinking this is all there is, and maybe even tempted to … Continue reading
Happy Hour
It’s that time again–each week seems to fly by doesn’t it? That’s why I love taking time to slow down with these Happy Hour posts–to help us not miss some of the most important blog posts of the week. Spend … Continue reading
Posted in Blog Love, Christian Marriage, Happy Hour
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Haunted By The “If Only’s” In Your Marriage?
If only… two little words that can leave a huge dent in your marriage. Are you haunted by these two words? Are they the first ones that come to mind when your spouse fails you in some way? Maybe they … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Perspective in Marriage
Tagged If only, Perspective, Regret
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On Turning 56
Today is my 56th birthday. Fifty-six years ago my Mom and Dad were busy getting ready to add one more baby to their family of four. They thought they were finished, but God had other plans. I understand why she … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Difficulty, Encouraging Your Spouse
Tagged Birthdays, God Is Constant, Reflections
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Do You Wish You Could Quit?
If you answered yes to this question, I get it. Marriage is hard work. But the problem isn’t that marriage is too hard; the problem is we didn’t fully understand what marriage entailed when we stood on the altar giving … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Difficulty, Growing Strong Marriages, Troubled Marriage
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Happy Hour
It’s the time of week when we share with you the marriage blog posts that we’ve found helpful and worth sharing. Grab your favorite drink and enjoy your time here–you’re always welcome! π Intimacy In Marriage What Is Destroying Sex … Continue reading
Posted in Blog Love, Christian Marriage, Happy Hour
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Stretching Our Romantic Muscles – A 21 Day Challenge
I’ve been doing something consistently that I had all but given up ever doing again. I started exercising. For those of you who have always been physically active you can’t possibly understand what I’m talking about. It is a way … Continue reading
Overlook
We’re at our cabin this week for the 4th of July with most of our family who will arrive for a long weekend. The mountains are beautiful this time of year, and it’s the first time we’ve actually seen the … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Conflict, Growing Strong Marriages
Tagged Blue Ridge Parkway, Offense, Overlook, Proverbs 19:11, Rhododendrons
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Slow To Speak
I am married to a man who has learned the wisdom of speaking slowly. It’s not because he’s slow of thinking. In fact, it’s just the opposite. He ponders his thoughts before sharing them with others. And he often chooses … Continue reading
Peeking In Your Bedroom
No, it’s not what you think.Β What I’m talking about is something to help you and your marriage. It’s not difficult to do and you don’t need to study to figure out how to do it. All you have to … Continue reading
Happy Hour
It’s Friday. It’s 5:00. It’s time for our weekly celebration of all the great marriage content being shared this week. Of course, the list isn’t exhaustive–but it’s full of posts we’ve read and highly endorse. Grab your favorite drink and … Continue reading
Posted in Blog Love, Christian Marriage, Happy Hour
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Elisabeth Elliot 1926-2015
This morning at the age of 88, Elisabeth Elliot went to be with the Lord. Oh to see the reunion of her with her first husband Jim as she tells him what happened with theΒ Auca Indians after his death. Imagine … Continue reading
Posted in Aging, Christian Marriage, Seasons of Life, Testimonies
Tagged Elisabeth Elliot, Quotes
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Happy Hour
Each week we enjoy sharing with you what other marriage bloggers are posting. The following are our picks for you to read and from which to glean. Grab a cup of your favorite drink and spend time reading this … Continue reading
Romantic Movie Moments
Photo Credit: Jeff Salz.com Have you ever been enjoying a movie when a scene happens that affects you to the core? I have had this happen a few times–they’re called touchstones, where a scene touches a part of your heart … Continue reading
Posted in Testimonies, Thankfulness
Tagged Anyone At All, Carole King, touchstones, you've got mail
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Happy Hour
The lack of happy hour posts isn’t due to lack of great content the other marriage bloggers are writing; it’s due to the fact we’ve been on Nana and Papa Duty for 9 days with four of our 7 grandchildren. … Continue reading
Posted in Blog Love, Happy Hour
Tagged Blog Love, Happy Hour, Marriage Post Roundup
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Marriage Rip-Currents And How To Avoid Them
I spent a day this week at the beach with my daughter and three of her four children–we left the baby at home. When we arrived it looked like a storm might blow in, so my oldest granddaughter suggested we … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Conflict
Tagged Beach Danger, Conflict resolution, Hot Buttons, Hot Topics In Marriage, Rip-Currents
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The Many Faces Of Empty
Empty. It’s a funny word when you say it by itself. It sounds like two letters of the alphabet “M” and “T”. I don’t know about you, but it’s a word I use often, and it has many faces. Think … Continue reading
Top 10 Summer Post Roundup
Summer is almost upon us, and you’re most likely dreaming of things to do to make this year special. One thing is sure–if you don’t plan a great Summer, it will be gone before you can blink. Planning is essential … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage
Tagged Summer Date Ideas, Summer Ideas, Top 10 Summer Posts
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Happy Hour
I know we haven’t provided a Happy Hour post in a long time. I’ve missed taking time to read what other marriage bloggers are saying–and you know what? There’s some really good Truth being shared. So…here’s to your weekend. Grab … Continue reading