Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

The Value Of Friends

Posted on April 26, 2015 by Debi Walter

   We have been away this week with friends. It’s not the first time we’ve done this; in fact we’ve done it many times with them. We’ve been to Alaska, Europe, Napa Valley, Quebec City and Bermuda together just to … Continue reading →

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Finding Love Right Where You Are

Posted on April 24, 2015 by Debi Walter

You may be familiar with a current hit song by Ed Sheeran titled, Thinking Out Loud. In it he talks about all the mundane seasons of a relationship–growing older, yet loving each other more through these everyday moments. Think about … Continue reading →

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Are You Spontaneous?

Posted on April 20, 2015 by Debi Walter

   How spontaneous are you?  Some people avoid it at all costs, others thrive on it. I’d say Tom and I are quite spontaneous. In fact some of our best memories were totally unplanned. We’re on our way to our … Continue reading →

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21 Day Fix For Marriage

Posted on April 15, 2015 by Debi Walter

Three Weeks.  Three weeks pass quickly, especially when you’re on an extended vacation. Ah! Doesn’t a three week cruise sound wonderful? But it’s not happening for us and probably not for you either. <sigh> But three weeks really does go … Continue reading →

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To the Well-Intentioned but Ignorant Parents of Teenagers.

Posted on April 9, 2015 by Debi Walter

Today I’m doing something I hardly ever do–I’m reblogging. It’s a message for all our readers who are parents about the importance of being current as to what you allow your children to do on the internet. I need say … Continue reading →

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The Lord Is Risen…

Posted on April 5, 2015 by Debi Walter

Happy Easter! We encourage you to take Christ at His Word when He said, “He whom the Son sets free is free indeed!” – John 8:36 Are you walking in this freedom? Is your marriage? Take your burdens to Him … Continue reading →

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When Pain Feels Good

Posted on April 1, 2015 by Debi Walter

No one likes to feel pain. We  avoid experiencing it as much as possible. But there are times when pain is necessary.  I’m currently going through physical therapy for an impinged left shoulder, and it isn’t fun. Each time I … Continue reading →

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Crossroads

Posted on March 24, 2015 by Debi Walter

We all know what’s it’s like to be at a crossroad–that’s where two roads intersect and you have to decide which way to go. If you’ve set your course ahead of time, then the decision is easy–hardly noticeable. If you’re … Continue reading →

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Survey Invitation For The Effects Of Menopause On Your Sex Life

Posted on March 11, 2015 by Debi Walter

  Happy Wednesday! I’ve been asked to provide a guest post for Julie Sibert of Intimacy In Marriage blog on the effects menopause has had on the sex life of a healthy marriage. This is why I’m sending you this … Continue reading →

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What a Black and Blue Dress Can Teach Us About Marriage

Posted on February 27, 2015 by Debi Walter

As most of you are probably aware, social media is ablaze with a debate about whether this dress white and gold or black and blue? Ask everyone near your computer and you’ll most likely get both answers. How.is.this.possible? It’s a … Continue reading →

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What Marriage Is And Isn’t To Us

Posted on February 24, 2015 by Debi Walter

Today is our 36th anniversary–3 dozen years! It’s been quite the journey, and we couldn’t be more grateful to God who has made it all possible. In 36 years we’ve learned about what marriage is and what it isn’t. If … Continue reading →

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Happy Valentine’s Day

Posted on February 14, 2015 by Debi Walter

Sometimes there are parts of movies that stay with you forever. The following clip is one such movie…May you have a wonderful life night. 😉 And when you finish watching this clip…enjoy this new song by JJ Heller and her … Continue reading →

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Everyday Romance – Life Giving Words

Posted on February 13, 2015 by Debi Walter

Today’s idea was founded centuries ago when men of old were writing letters of encouragement to other brothers and sisters in Christ. What they didn’t know was how the Holy Spirit was infusing every Word with the life-giving power of … Continue reading →

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Everyday Romance – How Sweet It Is

Posted on February 12, 2015 by Debi Walter

Today’s idea is another one that is easy to do, but will hopefully leave a lasting impression on your spouse’s mind and heart.  Have you ever thought about the names of the candies sold in stores? They provide a great … Continue reading →

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Everyday Romance – Remember When

Posted on February 11, 2015 by Debi Walter

Today’s challenge is short and sweet–Find a picture from one of your favorite times together. Take some time to write out what you loved most about this time in your history. To Help You Think of what you were doing … Continue reading →

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Everyday Romance – Hidden Notes

Posted on February 10, 2015 by Debi Walter

Today’s romantic challenge is to write a group of notes to your spouse telling them something specific in stages and hiding them where you know they’ll find them. Or you can give them the first one that provides a hint … Continue reading →

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Everyday Romance – Romantic Text

Posted on February 9, 2015 by Debi Walter

Valentine’s Day is Saturday. You may be giddy with excitement; you may be dreading another expectation on your horizon; or you may be indifferent and could care less. Whatever your mindset, the fact is–you are married; you love your spouse; … Continue reading →

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Can We Talk?

Posted on February 5, 2015 by Debi Walter

Last night at our small group meeting a couple shared something they had recently gone through that they thought would be helpful to the rest of us. It was. It provided a spring board for an entire evening of dialogue. … Continue reading →

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On Guard For Good

Posted on January 27, 2015 by Debi Walter

We recently went to see the movie Unbroken, and unfortunately got there in time to see the previews of upcoming films. We were shocked to see the trailer to the movie, 50 Shades of Grey, rated R, which is set … Continue reading →

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Are You Free To Do This In Your Home?

Posted on January 14, 2015 by Debi Walter

  It is greatly needed in every home, yet oftentimes life gets so serious that months can go by and we haven’t even thought about it much less found a reason to do it. But we encourage you to find venues … Continue reading →

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