Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

Foodie Fridays – Hurricane Memories

Posted on September 28, 2024 by Debi Walter

Being a native Floridian I have lots of memories of hurricanes throughout my life. The first one to hit Orlando directly in my lifetime was Donna which hit in 1960. I was one year old and remember seeing a river … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Buffalo Joes

Posted on September 20, 2024 by Debi Walter

Traveling always provides good food that becomes part of the memories of a great vacation. We were in Salt Lake City with friends visiting the National Parks—Zion and Bryce Canyon. The vistas were breathtaking and the memories made priceless. One … Continue reading →

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Remember and Share

Posted on September 18, 2024 by Debi Walter

On Monday Tom and I went to breakfast. That isn’t special in itself, but it’s what we did the morning Tom proposed to me in 1978. Afterwards we went to Kraft Azalea Gardens where he asked me to marry him … Continue reading →

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Twisted Words -Vintage Post

Posted on September 16, 2024 by Debi Walter

Originally posted January 2020 Have you ever said something to your spouse and the reaction they gave was unexpected? You realize that they didn’t hear what you said in the way you meant them too. A miscommunication is hanging in … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Pumpkin Scones

Posted on September 13, 2024 by Debi Walter

In Florida we enjoy this season not because of the cooler weather, of which there is none. We enjoy it by what we eat. A favorite in our family is the Copycat recipe I found of Starbucks’ Pumpkin Scone. It … Continue reading →

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Just Kidding – Part 2

Posted on September 11, 2024 by Debi Walter

Reposted from 2012 and adds more examples and help on how to work through this kind of conflict. This is a phrase used often.  It is said when the person really is just kidding. Laughter erupts with everyone in the … Continue reading →

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Just Kidding

Posted on September 9, 2024 by Debi Walter

There are times when joking with friends the words can roll off the tongue without thinking. It may be that you say something you didn’t mean to say or you say it in a way that sounds mean. Often we … Continue reading →

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Husbands, Are You a Student of Your Wife?

Posted on September 4, 2024 by Debi Walter

This question is good for both husbands and wives to ask of yourselves. Your answer indicates whether your marriage is growing strong or if your marriage is eroding away. Let us introduce you to one man who has had a … Continue reading →

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A Temporary Farewell

Posted on August 26, 2024 by Debi Walter

We started this blog almost 16 years ago—this November. We began providing date night ideas to help keep the romance and friendship alive in your relationship. In the busyness of married life, it is easy to fall into a “business … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Farmers Market Day Date

Posted on August 23, 2024 by Debi Walter

Living in Florida, it is difficult to grow a garden. Even my flowers are suffering in this unbearable heat, and they usually flourish. Our local Farmer’s Market is a regular date we take together on Saturday mornings. We look over … Continue reading →

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Together

Posted on August 19, 2024 by Debi Walter

We have had a busy weekend celebrating Tom’s birthday. It was fun to really surprise him this year and give him one he’ll never forget. Today we are tired because Monday is our scheduled day at the gym. We work … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Chicken Cacciatore, Bruschetta and Vanilla Cream Tarts with Cherries

Posted on August 16, 2024 by Debi Walter

Years ago I read a book that completely changed the way I viewed cooking and hosting friends in our home. The book’s title is, Bread & Wine by Shauna Niequist. My biggest takeaway from her book is the reminder of … Continue reading →

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What Love Looks Like

Posted on August 14, 2024 by Debi Walter

This quote is from Dr. John Delony, bestselling author, mental health expert and host of the Dr. John Delony Show. He also is part of Dave Ramsey’s team of experts who spend their loves helping people out of their messes: … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Summer Grilled Steak Salad

Posted on August 9, 2024 by Debi Walter

We were having friends over for a Friday afternoon lunch—a perk of retired life. 🥰 Tom and I decided a Steak Salad would be perfect for a hot Summer afternoon lunch, and it was. Tom took care of marinating and … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post: Are You an Eraser or a Highlighter

Posted on August 7, 2024 by Debi Walter

Originally posted in April, 2019, this is a good word worth repeating… Erasers are used to take away errors giving an opportunity to make corrections. Highlighters are used to emphasize something you don’t want to forget. In marriage we can … Continue reading →

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3 Ways to Diffuse an Argument

Posted on August 5, 2024 by Debi Walter

Every couple has disagreements. Sometimes those disagreements can become heated. We may not be able to avoid the tense times, but there are ways to diffuse an argument before it ignites. Imagine an argument is like a bundle of dynamite. … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Chicago, Thanks for the Memories

Posted on August 2, 2024 by Debi Walter

Tom and I have enjoyed so many meals and moments in Chicago. The business we owned was a commercial food equipment parts and service distributor. Every May, (C-FESA) the National Association to which we were members, had meetings at the … Continue reading →

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Making Ordinary Days Special

Posted on July 31, 2024 by Debi Walter

Dating your spouse is a mindset. It is the desire to be together doing things you both love. The key word is “together”. Using this definition can make an ordinary, running of errands, kind of day into a date, if … Continue reading →

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How To Tell If You’re Selfish In Your Marriage

Posted on July 29, 2024 by Debi Walter

Our church is going through Proverbs and today was chapter 5. Loving marriage the way we do, we have committed our lives to encourage intimacy on emotional, physical, intellectual and spiritual levels. But there is a fifth aspect of intimacy … Continue reading →

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Open Door

Posted on July 22, 2024 by Debi Walter

Doors can welcome you in or shut you out. What determines one over the other is who is on either side of the door. If it is friends coming over for game night, you gladly open the door for them … Continue reading →

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