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Author Archives: Debi Walter
Why Not Now?
I’ve been thinking how challenging communicating about hard things can be in marriage. – Maybe you don’t agree on your budget limitations. – Maybe you are hurt over something your spouse said, but you’re afraid to tell them. – Maybe … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, communication, Conflict, Difficulty, Growing Strong Marriages, Keeping It Real
Tagged #tripwithlifelongfriends2024, fighting for your marriage, hard conversations, Leaning In, prayer for my marriage, pulling away, Why not now
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Dreams Come True
Since I was a young girl I’ve always wanted to visit Switzerland. Imagine my delight to experience this dream with my husband for our 45th anniversary? We like to ask each other after a trip what are the things you’ll … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Travel, Vacations
Tagged Grindelwald, Interlachen, Lucerne, Swiss Alps, Switzerland
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Foodie Fridays – Siena, Italy
“One of the many ways to know a territory is by “tasting it”. (From their website) Our first day exploring Tuscany took us to Siena. We planned to tour the city seeing its museums, famous plaza and duomo. But we … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays, Travel, Vacations
Tagged Italy, La Taverna di Giuseppe, Michelin Star Restaurant, Siena, travel
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Foodie Fridays – Italy Here We Come
I know I have been absent for a few weeks and I’ve missed you all. But there were many logs in the fire needing constant attention. Thankfully, we’ve found reprieve and our 45th anniversary trip to Italy and Switzerland is … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays, Romantic Vacation Ideas, Travel, Vacations
Tagged affogato, Anniversary Trip, Italy, Switzerland, Tuscany, Vacations
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Good Friday
Normally this is my Foodie Friday post where we share good food we’ve enjoyed whether at home or out on the town. But this Friday is special. It is the day when Jesus paused to break bread with his disciples … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Easter
Tagged communion, Good Friday, Sunday’s coming, The Lord’s Supper
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Spiritual Intimacy in Marriage
This week is what Christians call Holy Week. It is the beginning of following Jesus’s final journey on Earth to the cross. It is the most important week of the year. If Jesus didn’t die and 3 days later rise … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – Happy Pi Day
I have a history of baking pies since Tom and I were first married. We lived in a rented retirement condo in Bradenton, FL, 3 miles from the Gulf of Mexico. I loved our one bedroom apartment with the canary … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays, Making Scents
Tagged Birthdays, National Pie Day, traditions
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Pruning Your Marriage
We recently did a hard pruning in our yard. All plants were cut back, except for our azaleas that are showing off this year. They will be pruned later. The first cut is always the hardest. Once you start you’re … Continue reading
When Hard Times Come
We’ve all had them. Circumstances don’t go the way we planned. Or worse something happens that sends your emotions reeling. It’s hard to believe the unthinkable happened and you have to deal with the aftermath of a difficult situation. This … Continue reading
How To Avoid A Pharisee’s Attitude in Marriage
The Pharisees were the religious elite of their day. They spanned the motives of their heart with a pat on the back. All the perfection boxes were checked, yet one thing was lacking—humility. Humility is lowliness of mind; a deep … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – The Capital Grille
We love celebrating our anniversary. We make much of what God has done in our lives individually and in our relationship. There are so many stories of disappointments, sicknesses, accidents, celebrations, victories and awards. All of them tell the story … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage
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Adventure Begins With One Word
Last week we took our Ukrainian friends to see the Manatees at Blue Springs State Park. But we almost missed it. When we were on our way we couldn’t understand why our GPS said, “5 miles and 30 minutes to … Continue reading
5 Words
We need to say these 5 words probably more often than we do. It’s a sure way to end an argument and the best way to restore intimacy. These 5 words have the ability to reset your marriage. It can … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, communication, Conflict, Forgiveness, Growing Strong Marriages
Tagged 5 Words, Forgiveness, powerful words
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Foodie Fridays – Birchermuesli
It was the first trip to Chicago Tom and I took for business. He had to go to the National Restaurant show at McCormick Place held annually in May. To say I was excited would be an understatement. We arrived … Continue reading
Posted in anniversaries, Cherishing, Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays
Tagged Birchermuesli, Chicago, Chocolate, National Restaurant Show, Swissotel, Wacker
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45
What do you think of when you see this number? My first thought is the record collection I had as a young teenager. Records came in three sizes—45 rpm that had a single song on each side. 33 rpm that … Continue reading
Posted in anniversaries, Christian Marriage, Love Songs, Music
Tagged 45 rpm records, Anniversary, bubble gum music, Happy Together, The Beatles, The Monkees, The Turtles
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Presidents’ Quotes About Their Wives
It is Presidents’ Day in our country which falls around Washington’s (2/19) and Lincoln’s (2/12) birthdays every year. We love good quotes that inspire our own thoughts towards our spouse. And here are some excellent words penned by various presidents … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, communication, Encouraging Your Spouse, Holidays, Romance in Marriage, Showing Honor
Tagged Honoring your spouse, Library of Congress, Love Quotes, Presidents’ Day
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Foodie Fridays – Steak Dinner So Rich You Can Skip Dessert
I know that’s a very long title, but it is seriously true! We found this recipe in a Williams and Sonoma French cookbook that was a gift. The photo drew us in and the recipe has been a favorite now … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Dinner Dates, Foodie Fridays, Valentine's Day
Tagged Filet Mignon, French Cookbook, my husband cooks, port wine, romantic dinner, Roquefort cheese, Williams Sonoma
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3 Questions to Make Valentine’s Day More Intimate
Valentine’s Day is typically either an annual event in your home—one focused on the kids giving cards and conversation hearts to their schoolmates, or it’s a token holiday including a card, flowers or chocolates for your wife. We can take … Continue reading
Posted in Biblical Encouragement, Christian Marriage, Emotional, Growing Strong Marriages, Intimacy, Prayer
Tagged 3 Questions for Valentine’s Day, Emotional intimacy, Valentine's Day
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Fairytale or Adventure
Tom and I are watching The Crown on Netflix. We started it a long time ago, but never finished it; our life demanded our attention elsewhere. In fact we forgot about it until our pastor mentioned it one recent Sunday. … Continue reading