Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

Foodie Fridays – St. Louis BBQ Ribs

My mouth is watering as I typed the title above. We just got back from visiting our daughter for her birthday weekend. As is our tradition, we asked her what she wanted for her birthday dinner. Her response was, BBQ … Continue reading

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Valentine’s Day Blessing

Driving home today was stressful as Interstate driving usually is. We saw truck drivers weaving in and out of lanes as if they were Nascar drivers. It was alarming and revealing. I’ve never paid attention to truck drivers—the ones who … Continue reading

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Learning Curve

Tom and I have been learning about difficult issues in marriage that we didn’t know happened. We realize how we have been spared many heartaches in our 45 years of marriage. Not that we didn’t have our own to deal … Continue reading

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Foodie Fridays – Groundhog’s Day Movie in a Muffin

February 2nd is Groundhog’s Day. The day when Puxatawney Phil predicts the weather for the rest of Winter. The movie is a classic. The day repeats itself over and over again starting with breakfast at Tip Top Cafe’. Phil orders … Continue reading

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Try Something New

How long has it been since you and your spouse tried something new together? It can be anything—restaurant, recipe at home, romantic ideas or even a hobby or skill. Your marriage relationship is unlike any other—you can try anything new. … Continue reading

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When Marriage Needs a Reboot

My Smart Phone is only smart when it works. When it starts doing weird and unexplainable things, we’ve all learned it needs a reboot. Marriage is no different. We can know all the right things. We can even have years … Continue reading

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Detour

Have you ever been on the way to a familiar place, so much so that you hardly paid attention to the drive? We do this most of our lives passing the same places for the same reasons. Until…a detour sign … Continue reading

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Foodie Fridays – A Family Favorite Game Day Snack

I had never had one until I met Tom. It was a weird looking vegetable, and I had no idea how to prepare it, much less how to eat it. An artichoke is beautiful and unique and full of health … Continue reading

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Foodie Fridays – Make Ahead Game Day Snacks

Have you ever met a friend who you just connected with over shared interests. And later became good friends as a result? We have. Their names are Steve and Missi. We met at church and discovered we shared a love … Continue reading

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Surprise Challenge

Have you considered the blessing there is in surprise? Our lives are normally predictable which can translate to boring. The longer you’ve been married the more likely your relationship is mundane or heading that way. Our special needs 3 year … Continue reading

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Reclaiming Rest

When our kids were little, Sunday was stressful. Since we homeschooled our three kids, it was the only day of the week when we had to be somewhere on time. And my husband hated being late. I remember once when … Continue reading

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Foodie Fridays – Braciole

Tom is Italian. We love Italian food most of all for the warmth and comfort a good traditional meal provides. When Tom’s Mom passed away, I was grateful she gave me her sauce recipe. It’s still our favorite Bolognese sauce … Continue reading

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Foodie Friday – New Year’s Traditional Meal

It is two days until 2024 and I always look forward to our New Year’s Day menu: Hoppin’ John, Collard Greens and cornbread Hoppin’ John is a southern dish that makes black-eyed peas exceptional. Sop it up with some cornbread … Continue reading

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Christmas Reflections

No matter how long you’ve been married, there is something special about pausing to remember. Christmas provides a great opportunity to do so, since it happens the end of the year. Our pastor always asks these questions in December, “Look … Continue reading

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Foodie Fridays – Kahlua for “Youa” and a Cake to Bake

I haven’t made it in years, mainly because it makes so much—2 liters. But this year I was ready to make some as gifts and this time provide a recipe for Kahlua cake. Sweet! I realize not everyone enjoys a … Continue reading

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Foodie Friday – A Family Classic

My Mom went home to be with her Savior 11 years ago next week at the age of 90. How I miss her. There is one recipe our family has made every Christmas since I was born, and maybe longer. … Continue reading

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Foodie Friday – Langostino Nachos

Years ago we were a part of a trial group testing out new recipes for a restaurant chain. We were paid for our opinion which made this a fun date night. We had never heard of langostinos before and maybe … Continue reading

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Roots Remain

Oak trees are beautiful. We moved into our neighborhood 31 years ago because of the mature oak trees. They provide much needed shade from our intense Florida heat. Tom had a tree removed out of necessity in our front yard … Continue reading

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Foodie Friday – Best of Vacation Food

We are on a much needed and anticipated vacation. Being from Florida the only Autumn beauty we encounter is store bought. This is why we decided to chase the leaves for two weeks in North Carolina and enjoy the cool … Continue reading

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Foodie Fridays – Passport Dinner Club

We began our first dinner club with four other couples who enjoyed food as much as us, and who also happened to be dear friends. We enjoyed our season of Dinner Club while it lasted, about 7 years. The idea … Continue reading

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