Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

Foodie Fridays – Birchermuesli

Posted on February 23, 2024 by Debi Walter

It was the first trip to Chicago Tom and I took for business. He had to go to the National Restaurant show at McCormick Place held annually in May. To say I was excited would be an understatement. We arrived … Continue reading →

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45

Posted on February 21, 2024 by Debi Walter

What do you think of when you see this number? My first thought is the record collection I had as a young teenager. Records came in three sizes—45 rpm that had a single song on each side. 33 rpm that … Continue reading →

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Presidents’ Quotes About Their Wives

Posted on February 19, 2024 by Debi Walter

It is Presidents’ Day in our country which falls around Washington’s (2/19) and Lincoln’s (2/12) birthdays every year. We love good quotes that inspire our own thoughts towards our spouse. And here are some excellent words penned by various presidents … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Steak Dinner So Rich You Can Skip Dessert

Posted on February 16, 2024 by Debi Walter

I know that’s a very long title, but it is seriously true! We found this recipe in a Williams and Sonoma French cookbook that was a gift. The photo drew us in and the recipe has been a favorite now … Continue reading →

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3 Questions to Make Valentine’s Day More Intimate

Posted on February 14, 2024 by Debi Walter

Valentine’s Day is typically either an annual event in your home—one focused on the kids giving cards and conversation hearts to their schoolmates, or it’s a token holiday including a card, flowers or chocolates for your wife. We can take … Continue reading →

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Fairytale or Adventure

Posted on February 12, 2024 by Debi Walter

Tom and I are watching The Crown on Netflix. We started it a long time ago, but never finished it; our life demanded our attention elsewhere. In fact we forgot about it until our pastor mentioned it one recent Sunday. … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – St. Louis BBQ Ribs

Posted on February 9, 2024 by Debi Walter

My mouth is watering as I typed the title above. We just got back from visiting our daughter for her birthday weekend. As is our tradition, we asked her what she wanted for her birthday dinner. Her response was, BBQ … Continue reading →

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Valentine’s Day Blessing

Posted on February 7, 2024 by Debi Walter

Driving home today was stressful as Interstate driving usually is. We saw truck drivers weaving in and out of lanes as if they were Nascar drivers. It was alarming and revealing. I’ve never paid attention to truck drivers—the ones who … Continue reading →

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Learning Curve

Posted on February 5, 2024 by Debi Walter

Tom and I have been learning about difficult issues in marriage that we didn’t know happened. We realize how we have been spared many heartaches in our 45 years of marriage. Not that we didn’t have our own to deal … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Groundhog’s Day Movie in a Muffin

Posted on February 2, 2024 by Debi Walter

February 2nd is Groundhog’s Day. The day when Puxatawney Phil predicts the weather for the rest of Winter. The movie is a classic. The day repeats itself over and over again starting with breakfast at Tip Top Cafe’. Phil orders … Continue reading →

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Try Something New

Posted on January 31, 2024 by Debi Walter

How long has it been since you and your spouse tried something new together? It can be anything—restaurant, recipe at home, romantic ideas or even a hobby or skill. Your marriage relationship is unlike any other—you can try anything new. … Continue reading →

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When Marriage Needs a Reboot

Posted on January 29, 2024 by Debi Walter

My Smart Phone is only smart when it works. When it starts doing weird and unexplainable things, we’ve all learned it needs a reboot. Marriage is no different. We can know all the right things. We can even have years … Continue reading →

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Detour

Posted on January 26, 2024 by Debi Walter

Have you ever been on the way to a familiar place, so much so that you hardly paid attention to the drive? We do this most of our lives passing the same places for the same reasons. Until…a detour sign … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – A Family Favorite Game Day Snack

Posted on January 19, 2024 by Debi Walter

I had never had one until I met Tom. It was a weird looking vegetable, and I had no idea how to prepare it, much less how to eat it. An artichoke is beautiful and unique and full of health … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Make Ahead Game Day Snacks

Posted on January 12, 2024 by Debi Walter

Have you ever met a friend who you just connected with over shared interests. And later became good friends as a result? We have. Their names are Steve and Missi. We met at church and discovered we shared a love … Continue reading →

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Surprise Challenge

Posted on January 9, 2024 by Debi Walter

Have you considered the blessing there is in surprise? Our lives are normally predictable which can translate to boring. The longer you’ve been married the more likely your relationship is mundane or heading that way. Our special needs 3 year … Continue reading →

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Reclaiming Rest

Posted on January 7, 2024 by Debi Walter

When our kids were little, Sunday was stressful. Since we homeschooled our three kids, it was the only day of the week when we had to be somewhere on time. And my husband hated being late. I remember once when … Continue reading →

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Foodie Fridays – Braciole

Posted on January 5, 2024 by Debi Walter

Tom is Italian. We love Italian food most of all for the warmth and comfort a good traditional meal provides. When Tom’s Mom passed away, I was grateful she gave me her sauce recipe. It’s still our favorite Bolognese sauce … Continue reading →

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Foodie Friday – New Year’s Traditional Meal

Posted on December 29, 2023 by Debi Walter

It is two days until 2024 and I always look forward to our New Year’s Day menu: Hoppin’ John, Collard Greens and cornbread Hoppin’ John is a southern dish that makes black-eyed peas exceptional. Sop it up with some cornbread … Continue reading →

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Christmas Reflections

Posted on December 24, 2023 by Debi Walter

No matter how long you’ve been married, there is something special about pausing to remember. Christmas provides a great opportunity to do so, since it happens the end of the year. Our pastor always asks these questions in December, “Look … Continue reading →

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