Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

8 Ways To Keep From Draining The Life Out Of Your Marriage

Posted on July 21, 2016 by Debi Walter

In our last post I compared marriage to a fountain. I ended the post with this meme… …and it got me thinking of the ways we drain our marriages of the good God intended. I found this article on The … Continue reading →

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Be A Fountain Not A Drain

Posted on July 19, 2016 by Debi Walter

God made natural springs and waterfalls. Man has taken this concept from nature and made them into something beautiful we call… Fountains. They are refreshing, and the place where many drop a coin to make a wish. They are found … Continue reading →

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Secret Garden Of Pride

Posted on July 16, 2016 by Debi Walter

The last two posts have dealt with besetting sins and our need to disclose them to our spouse for help and hope in overcoming them. How You Deal With This Will Either Make Or Break Your Marriage 8 Principals To … Continue reading →

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8 Principals To Follow In Dealing With Habitual Sins

Posted on July 13, 2016 by Debi Walter

I recently read an excellent article, Dealing With Habitual Sins, by John McArthur. He expounds on eight principals needed to lay aside the sin that so easily entangles us. Treat your sin seriously. It dishonors God. It abuses mercy. It despises … Continue reading →

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How You Deal With This Will Either Make Or Break Your Marriage

Posted on July 11, 2016 by Debi Walter

Besetting sin or habitual sin. As Christians we deal with them every day of our lives. It is the one sin that easily entangles us without much effort. It is like an anchor on our soul adding weight to pull … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Making Mountain Vacations Memorably Romantic

Posted on July 8, 2016 by Debi Walter

  Romance In The Mountains What if you’re planning a vacation in the mountains?  What sort of things would make the vacation especially romantic?  Here are some ideas to consider: Go to the Visitor’s Center and request a map of … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Tell Me The Good

Posted on July 5, 2016 by Debi Walter

We recently had lunch with some friends who shared with us a tradition the wife had grown up doing at the dinner table. It was really quite simple. Her dad would say, Tell me the good, and everyone at the table had … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – 5 Disciplines For A Successful Vacation

Posted on July 1, 2016 by Debi Walter

  Discipline and vacation may not be words you would normally think go together. However, if you’re going to include “success” in this equation–it is a must. Vacations are the ideal time for a family and/or couple to pull away for … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Unpacking For Vacation

Posted on June 29, 2016 by Debi Walter

Tonight at 5p. our week-long vacation will officially begin. We are turning our attention and time off of technology and turning all our focus on us. To say we are excited is a huge understatement. We’re almost giddy. 🙂 Okay, … Continue reading →

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Are You Making This Mistake In Your Marriage?

Posted on June 27, 2016 by Debi Walter

  You had a long talk about a goal you both want to accomplish. Plans are set in place to see the goal reached. As the first few steps are taken you realize the goal you had didn’t quite match … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on June 24, 2016 by Debi Walter

I must apologize for my absence the past couple of weeks. Living in Orlando, we’ve experienced three tragic circumstances that have left us feeling numb. Add to this some of our dearest friend’s daughter got engaged here last weekend and we … Continue reading →

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“It’s Not What I Thought It Would Be!”

Posted on June 17, 2016 by Debi Walter

All marriages at some point come to this conclusion. You never expected it to look like this, and how did you get here in the first place? It’s certainly not what you thought it would be. Where’s the romance? Where’s … Continue reading →

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The Grieving Continues…

Posted on June 15, 2016 by Debi Walter

Heavenly Father, Our hearts are broken. We ask that you comfort the families of those facing the worst of news this week–the loss of a loved one forever. We ask that you help our local law enforcement officers as well … Continue reading →

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The City Beautiful Turned Mournful 

Posted on June 12, 2016 by Debi Walter

We awoke this morning to devastating news in our city–The city where I was born and raised; The city where Tom and I were married; The city where our three children were born and raised as well. Our city has … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on June 10, 2016 by Debi Walter

Hard to believe it’s Friday already. There are some really special posts this week you won’t want to miss. Set aside some time with your favorite drink and enjoy! Hot, Holy and Humorous Why Sex Should Be Hot, Holy and … Continue reading →

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Vintage Post – Wisdom Is Speaking

Posted on June 10, 2016 by Debi Walter

Wisdom from 170 years ago still speaks as clearly today. If you have found a husband/wife with whom to share life’s journey, you have within reach the ability to be the happiest of all earthly creatures. Marriage is a gift! … Continue reading →

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It’s About TIME!

Posted on June 8, 2016 by Debi Walter

You’re most likely familiar with Jim Croce’s #1 single from the 70’s, Time In A Bottle. If you’re not, you need to be! It’s one of those songs that communicates the value of lasting love. This man shares his desire … Continue reading →

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Hidden Fears That Haunted Me

Posted on June 6, 2016 by Debi Walter

We had been married for a few years, yet Tom still didn’t know something significant about me. I had managed to keep this part of my life hidden from him because I was embarrassed about it. I kept thinking to … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on June 3, 2016 by Debi Walter

    Is it Friday already? The week that starts with a holiday always seems to go faster, doesn’t it? Take some time this weekend and invest in helping your marriage grow. Here are our specials of the week for … Continue reading →

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Never Stop – A Love Song For You To Send

Posted on June 3, 2016 by Debi Walter

Today is a great day to send a special love note to your spouse. Let this post be your envelope, and the following video your heart communicated through song. Most marriages fail not because of huge conflicts, but because of … Continue reading →

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