Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

It Matters

Posted on December 27, 2013 by Debi Walter

How well do you watch your words when you’re around your children, your friends? Do they hear you talk down to your spouse? Do they hear you react to a request or question? If so, you’re like the majority of … Continue reading →

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Tired But Happy

Posted on December 19, 2013 by Debi Walter

It’s a week before Christmas, and our house is busy, busy, busy–wiping noses, changing diapers, playing crash, coloring, blowing bubbles and such. All 6 of our grandchildren are here through Christmas–yea! We have gingerbread houses to decorate, cookies to bake, … Continue reading →

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If Marriage Had A Fountain Of Youth

Posted on December 12, 2013 by Debi Walter

I remember as a child hearing of Ponce de Leon’s pursuit of The Fountain Of Youth. It was said to be somewhere in Florida, and it was told he spent his life trying to find it. But he never did … Continue reading →

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Choosing The Best This Christmas Season

Posted on December 5, 2013 by Debi Walter

Today would have been my Dad’s 91st Birthday. My Mom died nearly a year ago on December 15th. Needless to say, this has been an emotional month for me–beginning Thanksgiving week. Tom has spent lots of time comforting and holding … Continue reading →

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‘Twas A Christmas To Remember

Posted on December 3, 2013 by Debi Walter

I’ve written the following poem for your enjoyment, but in addition, we believe it displays a possible reason many who read our blog struggle to romance their spouse in big and special ways. However, romance is much more than the … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Dating Your Spouse, Parenting, Romance in Marriage, Seasons of Life | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 8 Comments

Giving Thanks To Whom?

Posted on November 26, 2013 by Debi Walter

Have you noticed how thankful people are this time of year? It used to be refreshing to hear people actually thanking God for His many blessings in their lives. But there has been a subtle change that I’ve noticed. Many … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Holidays | 6 Comments

Happy Hour – #72

Posted on November 23, 2013 by Debi Walter

I haven’t had a lot of time lately to peruse other marriage blogs. I’ve been focused on entering back into my real world, which has put the computer literally in the back seat of my mind. I must say it … Continue reading →

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Do You Differ or Defer?

Posted on November 22, 2013 by Debi Walter

It’s amazing to me how often the Lord will get my attention by defining two words. One is usually what I should be doing, and the other is what I tend to do left to myself. Case in point: Differ … Continue reading →

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Romantic Tailgating Date Idea – Oh Yeah!

Posted on November 19, 2013 by Debi Walter

If you love sports, you are most certainly aware of the tradition of tailgating. But many may have never had the chance to actually experience this in the parking lot on game/race day. So, we thought it would be fun … Continue reading →

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Manipulating Motives

Posted on November 14, 2013 by Debi Walter

Our pastor often asks the question, “Why do you do the things you do, and who do you do them for?” It’s a great question to help discover what motivates you in the mundane of everyday life. But have you ever … Continue reading →

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5 Years In Review…

Posted on November 12, 2013 by Debi Walter

Today is our 5th Blogiversary, and it’s hard to believe. We want to share with you what God as well as share some of our stats with you. Total Posts – 1282 (that’s an average of 4.9 posts a week) … Continue reading →

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A Secret Shared After 58 Years Of Marriage

Posted on November 8, 2013 by Debi Walter

We had lunch on Sunday with dear friends of ours, Jerry and Shirley Corbett. In September they celebrated their 58th wedding anniversary. It’s obvious they love each other, they enjoy being together, and they love God more today than they … Continue reading →

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To Perpetuate or Percolate

Posted on November 5, 2013 by Debi Walter

You might be wondering where we’ve been, or you might not have missed us at all. But in either case, we feel it necessary to explain our absence. I just returned from hosting my first ladies retreat at Barefoot Cabin … Continue reading →

Posted in 5th Blogiversary Most Romantic Table Challenge, Growing Strong Marriages, Priorities, The Romantic Vineyard | 26 Comments

50 Shades Of Grace In Marriage – Part 5

Posted on October 25, 2013 by Debi Walter

41. Grace allows us to look back and see the good, and look forward with faith for the future. 42. Grace doesn’t demand, instead it gives and gives and gives. 43. Grace helps us stay the course when we don’t … Continue reading →

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50 Shades Of Grace In Marriage – Part 4

Posted on October 24, 2013 by Debi Walter

31. Grace helps me celebrate their victories and accomplishments as if they were my own. 32. Grace helps me refrain from competing with my spouse and see that we’re on the same team. 33. Grace helps us become one flesh … Continue reading →

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50 Shades Of Grace In Marriage – Part 3

Posted on October 23, 2013 by Debi Walter

21. Grace helps me grow my friendship with my spouse over all other friendships. 22. Grace helps me continue to study my spouse in order to love them in the way they need it most. 23. Grace helps me remember … Continue reading →

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50 Shades Of Grace In Marriage – Part 2

Posted on October 22, 2013 by Debi Walter

Today we have a post on the 31 Days To A Better Marriage website. It’s titled, Being Intentionally Intentional. We invite you to click on over once you’re finished here. FYI, the post goes up 8a. PST, so if you … Continue reading →

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50 Shades Of Grace In Marriage – Part 1

Posted on October 21, 2013 by Debi Walter

        Grace helps me do for my spouse what I, in my laziness, don’t want to do. Grace helps me love my spouse when they have wronged me. Grace helps me overlook things my spouse does or … Continue reading →

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50 Shades Of Grace In Marriage

Posted on October 18, 2013 by Debi Walter

I was thinking the other day about the trilogy and soon–to-be-made movie of 50 Shades of Grey, and how it has been such a detriment to what a healthy relationship is as defined by God. It makes me appreciate all … Continue reading →

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A Pocket-Sized Tip To Remember

Posted on October 17, 2013 by Debi Walter

I have a friend. She’s a life-long mentor to me, really, and she does it without trying. We’ve only met together a few times over the years, but when we have it has always been an encouragement. She has a … Continue reading →

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