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Just Sayin’…
Hump Day is hump day! Let your imagination prompt you! Grateful that there is only one who can fulfill all the longings of your heart—spirit, soul and body. God has joined you as one…enjoy the gift of oneness. Have a … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Intimacy, Physical
Tagged Hump Day, Physical intimacy
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Avoiding The Door
Imagine living in a house that had one door you never opened; one room ignored. It is avoided because neither spouse wants to go there. Instead both go the long way around it as they live their days together. The … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, communication, Difficulty, Emotional, Growing Strong Marriages, Intimacy
Tagged disregarded, hard questions in marriage, I don’t feel heard, marriage, open door of communication
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How To Stay Emotionally Connected In Marriage
Let’s face it, this isn’t an easy task in any season of marriage. Emotions differ from day-to-day, and if there is no intentional plans to stay connected, drift will happen. Drift is slow movement with no control of direction. Hardly … Continue reading
Posted in Biblical Encouragement, Christian Marriage, communication, Emotional, Intimacy
Tagged Andrew Murray, Emotional Connection, Humility
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Making Holy Week Personal
This week is the week we celebrate the arrival of Jesus to Jerusalem. He came humble and riding on a donkey. The people rejoiced saying, “Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord!” Imagine if Jesus were … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Easter, Holidays, Intimacy, Spiritual
Tagged Ephesians 5:31-32, Holy Week, Spiritual Intimacy
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Vintage Post – Physical Intimacy
Originally published 2019 Some may call this Sexual Intimacy, but we believe Physical Intimacy more accurately describes this part of marriage. This kind of intimacy encompasses so much more than having sexual relations. Physical touch and expression throughout the day … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Growing Strong Marriages, Intimacy, Keeping It Real, Physical, Vintage Posts
Tagged Physical intimacy, Sexual intimacy, Sheet Music
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It’s The Small But Important Ways
Today I went to my daughter’s home, less than a mile away, to help her get her two kiddos down for a nap. I love that I can be there for her in these small, but important ways. I had … Continue reading
Posted in Cherish, Cherishing, Christian Marriage, Growing Strong Marriages, Intimacy
Tagged Cherishing Us, coffee, Intimacy in Marriage
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Creating Space
When was the last time you took a look at your home with intimacy in mind? I’m not talking sexual intimacy, that’s for another time. The intimacy I’m thinking of is a place to connect heart to heart. If you … Continue reading
Foodie Fridays – Chicago, Thanks for the Memories
Tom and I have enjoyed so many meals and moments in Chicago. The business we owned was a commercial food equipment parts and service distributor. Every May, (C-FESA) the National Association to which we were members, had meetings at the … Continue reading
Posted in Cherish, Christian Marriage, Foodie Fridays, Intimacy, Travel
Tagged Chicago, Dover Sole, Foodie Fridays, High Tea, The Drake Hotel, The Magnificent Mile
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Why Romance Matters
Our blog is called The Romantic Vineyard, so naturally romance is a key focus of ours. But romance can’t take the place of being intentional in growing your marriage for the purpose God designed. Marriage between and husband and wife … Continue reading
Rituals or Routines
We all have them; habits or routines that we do with little or no thought. Some are more meaningful than others. Compare drinking your morning coffee to brushing your teeth. Both are necessary, but morning coffee is a ritual all … Continue reading
Posted in Boredom, Cherish, Christian Marriage, Dating Your Spouse, Growing Strong Marriages, Intimacy, Priorities, Spiritual
Tagged Marriage help, Rituals, Romance, Routines
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Spiritual Intimacy in Marriage
This week is what Christians call Holy Week. It is the beginning of following Jesus’s final journey on Earth to the cross. It is the most important week of the year. If Jesus didn’t die and 3 days later rise … Continue reading
Pruning Your Marriage
We recently did a hard pruning in our yard. All plants were cut back, except for our azaleas that are showing off this year. They will be pruned later. The first cut is always the hardest. Once you start you’re … Continue reading
3 Questions to Make Valentine’s Day More Intimate
Valentine’s Day is typically either an annual event in your home—one focused on the kids giving cards and conversation hearts to their schoolmates, or it’s a token holiday including a card, flowers or chocolates for your wife. We can take … Continue reading
Posted in Biblical Encouragement, Christian Marriage, Emotional, Growing Strong Marriages, Intimacy, Prayer
Tagged 3 Questions for Valentine’s Day, Emotional intimacy, Valentine's Day
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Surprise Challenge
Have you considered the blessing there is in surprise? Our lives are normally predictable which can translate to boring. The longer you’ve been married the more likely your relationship is mundane or heading that way. Our special needs 3 year … Continue reading
Posted in Boredom, Cherish, Christian Marriage, Romance in Marriage, Romantic Ideas
Tagged surprise, Surprising your spouse
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Christmas Reflections
No matter how long you’ve been married, there is something special about pausing to remember. Christmas provides a great opportunity to do so, since it happens the end of the year. Our pastor always asks these questions in December, “Look … Continue reading
Happy Place
Tom and I had a discussion tonight about where our happy place is. It was an interesting conversation. He initially thought of places where we had made memories together. Happy times we’ve shared are special to me as well. However, … Continue reading
A Humble Spouse
We just finished going through the book, Cherish, by Gary Thomas, for the umpteenth time. And that is no exaggeration. You would think we wouldn’t need to read a book like this over and over. Especially since we’ve been doing … Continue reading
Posted in Cherish, Cherishing, Christian Marriage, Growing Strong Marriages, Intimacy, Repentance, Temptation
Tagged Andrew Murray, Cherish by Gary Thomas, Humility
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364
What is so special about this number? It’s how many days that fall between this Valentine’s Day and next Valentine’s Day. We have 364 more opportunities to let our spouse know how much they mean to us. In case you’re … Continue reading
Posted in Christian Marriage, Growing Strong Marriages, Intimacy, Romance in Marriage, Valentine's Day
Tagged 364, Let’s Do This, Romance in Marriage, Valentine's Day
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