Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

15+ Tips For Great Communication In Marriage

Posted on April 30, 2013 by Debi Walter

We had a reader ask us if we would post some tips on how to have healthy communication in your marriage. What a lofty goal to put such wise advice into our daily Healthy Marriage Tips. So we’ve decided it … Continue reading →

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GYRO Week 11 – Drive-In Movie Night

Posted on April 26, 2013 by Debi Walter

I know we don’t normally encourage a movie night for a date, even at home, but this one is different. The idea is to pick a really bad, B-rated movie. Believe me, they’re out there. I found one site that … Continue reading →

Posted in Cheap Dates, Christian Marriage, Creative Dates, D.R.A.B., Date Night Ideas, Dating Your Spouse, Free Dates, Fun Dates, GYRO Challenge, Movie Dates, Outdoor Dates, Romance in Marriage, romantic date nights | Tagged , , , , | 8 Comments

Meet The Gardners

Posted on April 23, 2013 by Debi Walter

Have you ever heard your spouse talk about someone over and over, but never had the chance to meet them? Someone they had met before you were together? You’ve heard so much about them that it’s almost like you know … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging, Christian Marriage, Growing Strong Marriages, Seasons of Life, Testimonies, The Gospel & Marriage | Tagged , , , , , , , | 21 Comments

GYRO Week 10 – No Electricity Night

Posted on April 19, 2013 by Debi Walter

We are in North Carolina this week and had the opportunity to be on the Blue Ridge Parkway late one night. We stopped at an overlook point and turned off the car so we could gaze at the stars. It … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Creative Dates, D.R.A.B., Date Night Ideas, Free Dates, Growing Strong Marriages, Outdoor Dates, Romance in Marriage, romancing your spouse, romantic date nights, Romantic Ideas, Unique Dates, Winter Date Ideas | Tagged , , , , , , | 6 Comments

Confessions Of A Marriage Blogging Wife

Posted on April 17, 2013 by Debi Walter

My friend, Kate, who writes the One Flesh Marriage Blog along with her husband, Brad, started a challenge to all marriage bloggers. It is to write out 10 confessions of what your life really looks like on a daily basis. … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, communication, Conflict, Growing Strong Marriages, Priorities, Purpose, Seasons of Life, Slices, Testimonies, The Gospel & Marriage | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 35 Comments

6 Date Ideas To Help Build Marriage Friendships

Posted on April 16, 2013 by Debi Walter

Most times when we think of a romantic evening, it’s just for the two of us. But there are times when it is fun to invite your closest married friends over for a nice evening  together. And if you don’t … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Creative Dates, Date Night Ideas, Dating Your Spouse, Dinner Dates, Growing Strong Marriages | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 7 Comments

Sexpectations

Posted on April 15, 2013 by Debi Walter

Winston Smith with Christian Counseling Education Foundation shares some excellent points in the following video regarding the expectations you may have in your marriage, especially in your sexual intimacy. I’ve often said sex is a barometer of how our marriage … Continue reading →

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Bud Break In The Vineyard

Posted on April 14, 2013 by Debi Walter

We are away with good friends for a weekend of laughter, good food and great conversation. Spring has just begun in North Carolina, which makes the weather perfect for being outdoors. We had a picnic today at a beautiful winery … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Growing Strong Marriages, Seasons of Life, The Gospel & Marriage, The Romantic Vineyard | 2 Comments

Romance 101 from the Huxtables

Posted on April 13, 2013 by Debi Walter

Today we have a treat for you. I was on the computer last night when I happened to see that J with the Hot, Holy and Humorous blog had just uploaded a video from The Cosby Show. I was the … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Growing Strong Marriages, Hindrances to Romance, Romance, Romance in Marriage, romancing your husband, romancing your spouse, romancing your wife, Sexual Intimacy | Tagged , , , , | 2 Comments

GYRO Week 9 – Spouse Appreciation Night

Posted on April 12, 2013 by Debi Walter

This date is a great way to let your spouse know all the things you love and appreciate about them. Start by making a list of those things you appreciate most about your spouse.  It has been said, “what we … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Creative Dates, Date Night Ideas, Dating Your Spouse, GYRO Challenge, Romance in Marriage, romancing your spouse, romantic date nights, Romantic Ideas | Tagged , , , , | 1 Comment

Don’t Ditch Your Marriage!

Posted on April 10, 2013 by Debi Walter

It all happened a few years ago when we were on a business trip in Detroit. We happened to pass by an apple orchard. Since I’m from Florida, I had never seen an orchard during harvest time, and I was … Continue reading →

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How’s The Climate In Your Marriage?

Posted on April 9, 2013 by Debi Walter

Have you ever been to Savannah, GA? Some of our good friends are there right now resting after the marriage of their daughter (and last one to leave home) on Saturday. I got a text from her saying how beautiful … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Difficulty, Growing Strong Marriages, Priorities, The Gospel & Marriage, Travel | Tagged , , , , | 10 Comments

Oh Happy Day

Posted on April 7, 2013 by Debi Walter

Friday I was working in the kitchen when I heard a knock on the front door. I opened the door only to find my two granddaughter’s Bristol (5) and Willow (3) standing there all alone with big smiles on their … Continue reading →

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GYRO Week 8 – Watch Your Wedding Video

Posted on April 5, 2013 by Debi Walter

This week’s date doesn’t take a lot of planning, but it is sure to bring back lots of memories. After dinner and once the kids are all sound asleep. Put on your comfy clothes and cuddle up on the couch … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Date Night Ideas, GYRO Challenge, Movie Dates, Romance in Marriage, romancing your spouse, romantic date nights | Tagged , , , | 9 Comments

Row, Row, Row Your Boat

Posted on April 3, 2013 by Debi Walter

We’ve all heard this song, and now thanks to ME you’ll be singing it all day. Sorry. That wasn’t my intention with our next metaphor, but it comes with it I’m afraid. Metaphor #3 Imagine you and your spouse are … Continue reading →

Posted in Boredom, Christian Marriage, communication, Conflict, Growing Strong Marriages, Seasons of Life | Tagged , , , | 10 Comments

The Holy Spirit Is Like A Hurricane

Posted on April 2, 2013 by Debi Walter

Consider this metaphor – The Holy Spirit is like a hurricane over the waters stirring up the winds of passion and thanksgiving.  The waters are swelling higher and higher as the anticipation of God’s nearness becomes a reality to weary … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Growing Strong Marriages, Purpose, Spiritual Intimacy, Thankfulness, The Gospel & Marriage | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

GYRO Week 7 – Blind Spouse Bluff

Posted on March 29, 2013 by Debi Walter

With April Fool’s Day on Monday, we thought it would be fun to have a date with a bit of “foolery” involved. Here’s how to plan a Blind Spouse Bluff Date: First – Gather a good blind fold or large … Continue reading →

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Are You Living With Unanswered Prayer?

Posted on March 28, 2013 by Debi Walter

Today we want to talk about those who are waiting on God to answer specific prayers regarding their spouse and marriage. It’s like your unanswered prayer takes on a life of its own and seems to haunt you each and … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Difficulty, Growing Strong Marriages, Music, Prayer, The Gospel & Marriage, Worship | Tagged , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

8 “We Do’s” To Keep Our Marriage Strong

Posted on March 25, 2013 by Debi Walter

We recently discovered a question posed by the Do Not Disturb blog. They asked us to post about what WE DO on a consistent basis to keep our marriage strong. Their goal is to get married couples all over the … Continue reading →

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