Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

It’s About Time or What An Alarm Clock Taught Me About Marriage

Posted on June 6, 2013 by Debi Walter

Our next Barefoot Cabin analogy came when Tom and I were told by our rental agency that we should provide an alarm clock in every bedroom. I can’t remember the last time we actually bought one, so we headed to … Continue reading →

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Just You Wait And See

Posted on June 4, 2013 by Debi Walter

I’m used to it after 34 years together. We’ve painted countless numbers of walls together, and Tom never thinks the color is right. I’ll  hear him say over and over, “Are you sure this color is good?” or “Do you … Continue reading →

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Is Your Marriage Primed?

Posted on June 3, 2013 by Debi Walter

We are spending three weeks at Barefoot Cabin getting it ready for the rental program. We started the long, arduous task of painting the interior walls. Most were either hunter green or red. We want to lighten and brighten the … Continue reading →

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The Advantage of Vantage Points

Posted on May 31, 2013 by Debi Walter

Vantage Point is the name of a movie that came out in 2008. In it, the attempted assassination of an American President is shown over and over from different vantage points. It showed how each person saw the same thing, … Continue reading →

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May Memorial Day Remind Us…

Posted on May 27, 2013 by Debi Walter

…what a gift we have in each other. Pray for those spouses who can no longer kneel together in prayer. What a sacrifice these couples have given for our freedom! Our hearts and prayers are with all who today have … Continue reading →

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Wordless Wednesday – Add Your Caption In The Comment

Posted on May 22, 2013 by Debi Walter
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What To Do When You Don’t Know What To Do

Posted on May 21, 2013 by Debi Walter

Now that’s a title! And it’s one most of us face at one time or another in our marriage. There are times when we don’t have a clue what is best for us in certain situations. Maybe your spouse feels … Continue reading →

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Are You Discouraged About Your Marriage Today?

Posted on May 20, 2013 by Debi Walter

Today my heart is heavy for those whose marriages are in a really difficult place. You may have just discovered your spouse has been unfaithful to you. You may be walking with them through a chronic or terminal illness. You … Continue reading →

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GYRO Week 14 – Flashlight Tag Date

Posted on May 17, 2013 by Debi Walter

This is our last date idea in our Get Your Romance On series. We hope you’ve enjoyed realizing how fun it can be to stay home and date your spouse. No babysitter, no restaurant bills to pay, just the two … Continue reading →

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I Couldn’t Be Happier

Posted on May 16, 2013 by Debi Walter

As you know, my family surprised me last week by taking me to Savannah for Mother’s Day. I was struggling with sadness the entire week before because everywhere I went I saw signs for Mother’s Day reminding me my Mother … Continue reading →

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Thankful For My Husband’s Failures

Posted on May 15, 2013 by Debi Walter

I am being freshly challenged by what it means to be a helper to my husband. It is a high calling and one that doesn’t come naturally to me. I am selfish and tend to go after what makes me … Continue reading →

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Are You A Suitable Companion?

Posted on May 14, 2013 by Debi Walter

As we continue our series focusing on the wife’s role as a helper to her husband, I want to share how much this has helped our marriage become what it is today. Not that I’ve been the one solely to … Continue reading →

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How A Wife Can Mirror God In Her Marriage

Posted on May 7, 2013 by Debi Walter

Most of us are familiar with the hit tune, Stand By Your Man. It’s a great virtue really, to be willing to stand up for, beside and with your man through all the ins and outs of married life. But … Continue reading →

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What It Means To Be A Helper To Your Husband

Posted on May 6, 2013 by Debi Walter

I was talking with some ladies a while ago when the conversation led to our role as our husband’s helper. It was a good discussion with friends who have strong marriages that have lasted decades. There were some who shared … Continue reading →

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A Short Love Story – Vito’s Coffee Shop

Posted on May 3, 2013 by Debi Walter

Today I want to share with you a short story I wrote years ago. With Memorial Day the end of this month, it seems the right time.  Vito’s Coffee Shop The day began like any other; after doing a once … Continue reading →

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What’s Your Filter?

Posted on May 1, 2013 by Debi Walter

I love taking photographs of anything and everything. I drive Tom crazy because I like taking pictures of what we’re eating as well, and he has to wait while his food gets cold.  I like to think of myself as … Continue reading →

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15+ Tips For Great Communication In Marriage

Posted on April 30, 2013 by Debi Walter

We had a reader ask us if we would post some tips on how to have healthy communication in your marriage. What a lofty goal to put such wise advice into our daily Healthy Marriage Tips. So we’ve decided it … Continue reading →

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GYRO Week 11 – Drive-In Movie Night

Posted on April 26, 2013 by Debi Walter

I know we don’t normally encourage a movie night for a date, even at home, but this one is different. The idea is to pick a really bad, B-rated movie. Believe me, they’re out there. I found one site that … Continue reading →

Posted in Cheap Dates, Christian Marriage, Creative Dates, D.R.A.B., Date Night Ideas, Dating Your Spouse, Free Dates, Fun Dates, GYRO Challenge, Movie Dates, Outdoor Dates, Romance in Marriage, romantic date nights | Tagged , , , , | 8 Comments

Meet The Gardners

Posted on April 23, 2013 by Debi Walter

Have you ever heard your spouse talk about someone over and over, but never had the chance to meet them? Someone they had met before you were together? You’ve heard so much about them that it’s almost like you know … Continue reading →

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GYRO Week 10 – No Electricity Night

Posted on April 19, 2013 by Debi Walter

We are in North Carolina this week and had the opportunity to be on the Blue Ridge Parkway late one night. We stopped at an overlook point and turned off the car so we could gaze at the stars. It … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Creative Dates, D.R.A.B., Date Night Ideas, Free Dates, Growing Strong Marriages, Outdoor Dates, Romance in Marriage, romancing your spouse, romantic date nights, Romantic Ideas, Unique Dates, Winter Date Ideas | Tagged , , , , , , | 6 Comments