Author Archives: Debi Walter

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About Debi Walter

Tom and Debi have been sharing encouragements through their blogs for many years. Marriage, Reading God's Word and documenting family history is our focus. Growing in our relationship with the Lord is primary in all we say, write or do. We are grateful for all who desire to join us in the same endeavors.

Turning A Deaf Ear Isn’t Love

Posted on August 20, 2013 by Debi Walter

I heard it again this morning. I was lamenting the fact to Tom that I’ve gained 10 pounds, and I’m having a hard time losing them. <sigh> His wise counsel to me was something I’ve heard over and over–you need … Continue reading →

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This May Be The Most Important Thing You Can Do For Your Spouse

Posted on August 19, 2013 by Debi Walter

I was touched recently by the tradition of Jerry Orbach to his wife, Elaine. You may remember him from his acting career on Law & Order for 13 years. Elaine will remember him as a faithful husband who never failed … Continue reading →

Posted in Encouraging Your Spouse, Growing Strong Marriages, Romance in Marriage, romancing your wife, Testimonies | 5 Comments

My Spouse Has Little Or No Desire For Sex

Posted on August 16, 2013 by Debi Walter

In our culture, with all the emphasis on sex, you wouldn’t think this is as big of an issue as it actually is. Yet no one wants to talk about it. Except, of course, for the spouse who is having … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging, Blog Love, Christian Marriage, communication, Conflict, Difficulty, Growing Strong Marriages, Newlyweds, Seasons of Life, Sexual Intimacy, Troubled Marriage | Tagged , , , , , , , | 10 Comments

Men On Pause

Posted on August 15, 2013 by Debi Walter

Years ago our pastor jokingly referred to menopause as “Men On Pause.” I thought he was kidding at the very best, or I hoped he was exaggerating at the very least. Turns out he was quite right. <sigh> Based on … Continue reading →

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What To Do When You’re Not In The Mood

Posted on August 13, 2013 by Debi Walter

Everyone at some point or another in marriage will face times where you just don’t feel like making love. But what happens when this happens and your spouse really, really wants to? There are several options. But first it’s important … Continue reading →

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When Your Sex Drive Putters Out

Posted on August 12, 2013 by Debi Walter

Last week I pulled back the curtain, and I’m compelled to do the same with this post, but it is a lot more personal. However, I can’t shake the importance of this topic, so here goes… A few months ago … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging, Christian Marriage, communication, Conflict, Difficulty, Growing Strong Marriages, Intimacy, Seasons of Life, Sexual Intimacy, Troubled Marriage | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 48 Comments

Happy Hour

Posted on August 9, 2013 by Debi Walter

Hard to believe it’s time for our Specials of the Week already. And this week we’re sharing several posts because we just couldn’t choose one blog to highlight. Take some time this weekend reading, gleaning and enjoying your marriage! Intimacy … Continue reading →

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I Will See You Again

Posted on August 9, 2013 by Debi Walter

I have had quite an emotional week. Tom was away on a missions trip to Nassau doing a music camp for kids.  It was so good for him to be a part of the team, loving the kids and serving … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Growing Strong Marriages, Music, Seasons of Life, Showing Honor, Thankfulness | Tagged , , , , , | 3 Comments

Confronting Confrontation

Posted on August 8, 2013 by Debi Walter

Such a harsh word, don’t you think? Con.fron.ta.tion. It sounds like it wants to pick a fight! And oftentimes it does in many marriages. But.what.if.we.were.to.think.differently? What if the next time our spouse mentions something in which they believe we need … Continue reading →

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Time To Pull Back The Curtain

Posted on August 7, 2013 by Debi Walter

Today I want to continue our conversation over a cup of coffee. You see, there are things that God has recently taken me through that I believe will help those of you who may be facing a similar challenge in … Continue reading →

Posted in Difficulty, Forgiveness, Prayer, Seasons of Life, Testimonies | Tagged , , , , , , | 15 Comments

Let’s Share An Afternoon Of Coffee And Conversation

Posted on August 6, 2013 by Debi Walter

If we could plan to meet for coffee one afternoon, I’m sure we would talk about normal everyday kinds of things. But there would be a moment when the conversation turned to the more personal side, where I would share … Continue reading →

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Keeping Our Final Destination In View

Posted on August 5, 2013 by Debi Walter

Paul David Tripp is one of our favorite author/speaker/teachers of all time. His latest post speaks to the reason we find ourselves disappointed, disheartened, and disillusioned when it comes to all aspects of life, including marriage. He makes seven points … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Growing Strong Marriages, Priorities, The Gospel & Marriage | 2 Comments

Happy Hour

Posted on August 2, 2013 by Debi Walter

This week’s Happy Hour special comes from a blog I just discovered. The writer, Lisa-Jo Baker, knows how to tell a story so well that you won’t want the post to end. This particular one is the perfect follow-up to … Continue reading →

Posted in A Fragrant Aroma, A Marriage Flight, Blog Love, Christian Marriage, Difficulty, Encouraging Your Spouse, Growing Strong Marriages, Happy Hour, Parenting, Seasons of Life, Showing Honor | Tagged , , , , | Comments Off on Happy Hour

Plan Now For A Special Labor Day

Posted on August 2, 2013 by Debi Walter

Labor Day is only a month away. This day is a time to celebrate the value of work, the reward or rest and the honor it brings. This year let’s not only celebrate the gift it is to have a … Continue reading →

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Beware Of These 6 Little Foxes

Posted on July 31, 2013 by Debi Walter

Marriage is a privilege, a gift from God that allows us to reflect the love Christ has for the church. In our culture oftentimes the most important part of getting married is the wedding itself! Imagine if a vineyard owner … Continue reading →

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Honoring Your Spouse On Facebook

Posted on July 30, 2013 by Debi Walter

One of the things I love about Facebook is seeing how spouse’s honor one another by speaking highly of them in daily status updates. I thought it would be encouraging to all of us to read the ones I’ve found … Continue reading →

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Celebrate National Lasagna Day

Posted on July 29, 2013 by Debi Walter

If you’re Italian you don’t need a day like this on the calendar. But if you aren’t–this is the perfect time to celebrate a classic dish. Today is  …and several restaurants in the Orlando area are offering the dish at … Continue reading →

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Happy Hour

Posted on July 26, 2013 by Debi Walter

Yes, it’s Happy Hour and time for our very special blog of the week. This week we want to introduce you to Ryan and Cassie, newlyweds (married in 2011), who have a passion to see marriages become all God has … Continue reading →

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A Marriage That Lasts

Posted on July 26, 2013 by Debi Walter

We have a friend, Beth, whose grandparents will celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary in September. She happens to be the twin sister to an amazing photographer named Mary Fields. They used the questions from the back of my book, Through … Continue reading →

Posted in A Marriage Flight, Aging, Blog Love, Celebrations, Christian Marriage, Seasons of Life | Tagged , , , , , , | 5 Comments

9 Fun Dates to Heat Up Your Summer

Posted on July 25, 2013 by Debi Walter

It’s the time of year when we all want new ideas on how to romance our spouse. The dog days of summer will begin shortly, so why not feed the dog something fresh. Maybe it will forego the normal doldrums. … Continue reading →

Posted in Christian Marriage, Date Night Ideas, Dating Your Spouse, Vintage Posts | 2 Comments